i've been to that faux french freakhole. not worth it.
the best french restaurant in the entire united states, according to many french i know, is the french laundry in yountville, napa, california. it has a 2-year wait in the reservation line. the next in line is bistro bouchon, also in the same town. bistro bouchon is more casual than the french laundry, but run by the same founder. the next in line after bistro bouchon is bistro jeanty, slightly a block away from bouchon. personally, i prefer jeanty over bouchon. not far from napa in sonoma, the next in line is the girl and the fig. if i go to napa, i would drive straight to yountville and hang around between bouchon and jeanty.