OK noted. And yes, real family should care for one another and want to see each member happy, healthy and doing well in life.Fuckeins, Fuckkas and Fuckchews are the cheap ones,....and its common knowledge in singkieland bcos a majority of cina singkies consists of these dialect groups....so of course they all sing the same song,,that is why I never visit my fuckein relatives...the gossips and their kiam siap ness is a turn off...just gossip and put ppl down etc,,,real family ask u how u are and help etc even give advice when have problems,,,but the fuckein ones will just criticise etc,,,and one other thing about fuckeins,,my fuckein frens tell me,,when they were kids,,they get ang pows,,,they have to give 50% back to their parents bcos their parents give out ang pows ,,,What kind of fuckein logic is that?????
Just a side note, I am against this chink ang pow tradition as a whole. Because ang pow means money. Kids learn to want money since young. The bigger the ang pow, the better, the happier they are. I guess it is tradition and face (giving more money means more face for the giver).