Had wanted to let the issue rest, but if you want to know the truth - it's because people are not as unethical. Even if I am wrong about who you are, another 2 guesses I am sure will be right. Your grudge with a certain entity gave yourself away. But I am just not you. Zhihau for example since he is the only forummer using real name. I know where he works, what he looks like. None of this info surfaced. I would not "reveal then pass the buck". The rest who are still nicks, I will not even quote them as examples.
If another truth is painful to you because you will lose your fodder - that is I don't really care. Why would a private ordinary Singaporean care. If indeed your identity was known one day, to your credit, you would not care too. My recent posts probably not understood by the educated but stupid makes it clear if people got it - a forum is about the issues not the individuals. You started two threads on me and more on Ram and others, I never had to stoop to that level.
As for JO, his own identity and tryst photos was in my view a gift to him from the One above, whatever he says here is nothing to worry about, he will be taken care of because he goes overboard even more than you, GMS and Bryan T combined together, and heaven has limits to tolerance.