To Perspective:
We'll meet up soon again when I'm in Singapore and my buddy you-know-who is free. Nobody's perfect everytime, including you and me of course. Whatever it is, let's talk it over dinner and a few rounds of drinks. This Scroobal hasn't recuperated from his testicles operation, or at least still suffering from side effects.
I have to agree with JXL it is quite true that you have given snippets about people's real life. While unlike others, you have told the truth, it should be a habit that should stop.
The issue is the way you perceive the forum. It is not MSN or intranet. There is only Ram, Persp, JXL, Scro, TFBH, Locke etc. Not Samuel, Tommy, Beng Hong etc. That helps us to focus on issues more. As a long time forummer, you should know the principle of the forum is the issues and the individuals only serve to distract. Gold Monkey Sink still hasn't realised that whenever discussions revolves around him, the life he leads outside the forum also becomes part of the discussion, such as his shop and his wife, which is meaningless and distracting. Maybe he enjoys the attention. I think it is likely. It is personal preference, but not my preference.
In this case, the saying "whatever you said being used against you" has manifested greatly. But I am alright with you. (I am alright with Scro either even if he is not). The issue is, this is a lesson on where your priorities should lie - forum or MSN. Now, Scro used you big time and you are caught with no defense.
You want to call my real life alter ego to a drink, just text. As said, this is not MSN. Perspective only exists behind a PC screen and cannot drink.