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how to increase self -confidence?

drifter

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Ah ram likes free dinner and free sex by using his tongue :wink:He's a living example of conman :wink:
 
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krafty

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Bad idea, these gals are infested with dun know what...scary...
Throw away all those negative thoughts in your head.. Go Geylang Lor 24, take 3 gals at one go...The rate starts at $25 there for a shot.. Banglas, Ah Tiongs and Ah Nehs flocking there will for sure look at you in awe..They will think you got superpower strength to piak piak 3 gals at one time.. Your confidence will be sky high.. You will be Invincible.. 3 gals for $75.. Quite cheap.. Money worth it.. Wish you well Krafty..
 

zeddy

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Bad idea, these gals are infested with dun know what...scary...

Don't take my suggestion seriously lah... Me just joking with you.. Agree with what Ah Ram said about paid sex.. Actually Krafty, you must first demolish all those negative thoughts in your head.. Slowly and slowly you will rebuild back your self confidence.. Find a good gal.. Start a relationship.. It would boost your confidence knowing that a woman that you love will be right there besides you when the goin gets tough in life..
 

Ramseth

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Another good idea to build up self confidence is to go Toa Payoh Swimming Complex. Action around and when the lifeguards are not looking, climb up the 10m. diving platform and jump. The pool is 4.5m. You won't knock your head on tile and die as long as you can swim and don't drown. Make sure the lifeguards are not looking and sneak up. That's a pool for approved training and competition only, e.g. diving and waterpolo.
 

krafty

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Huh...cheh, I thought you will blanjah me..haha, I agree with ram also.actually,I know one pdmm who is also my confidante for few years already.she is studying chinese medicine and freelance at the same time.she told me her troubles and I told her my worries. She is a good person,mistress material n big booibs too...hehe...
Don't take my suggestion seriously lah... Me just joking with you.. Agree with what Ah Ram said about paid sex.. Actually Krafty, you must first demolish all those negative thoughts in your head.. Slowly and slowly you will rebuild back your self confidence.. Find a good gal.. Start a relationship.. It would boost your confidence knowing that a woman that you love will be right there besides you when the goin gets tough in life..
 

drifter

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Another good idea to build up self confidence is to go Toa Payoh Swimming Complex. Action around and when the lifeguards are not looking, climb up the 10m. diving platform and jump. The pool is 4.5m. You won't knock your head on tile and die as long as you can swim and don't drown. Make sure the lifeguards are not looking and sneak up. That's a pool for approved training and competition only, e.g. diving and waterpolo.

Whahahaha ..good one .
 

psy83

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No negative thoughts, Simple as that. Remind yourself this the moment you open your eyes in the morning and stop yourself Immediately when you start think negative thoughts..

P.s.... NO SELF PITY, NO SELF HATE, NO TO NEGATIVE THOUGHTS
 
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Ramseth

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Whahahaha ..good one .

Jokes and jibes aside, I think no swimmer however desperate and suicidal would choose to die in water. It's very hard because of trained reflex. It's like a bicyclist or motorcyclist. Once you can balance on two wheels, you can always balance on two wheels by reflex without thinking about it.
 

zeddy

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Another good idea to build up self confidence is to go Toa Payoh Swimming Complex. Action around and when the lifeguards are not looking, climb up the 10m. diving platform and jump. The pool is 4.5m. You won't knock your head on tile and die as long as you can swim and don't drown. Make sure the lifeguards are not looking and sneak up. That's a pool for approved training and competition only, e.g. diving and waterpolo.

Ram, this place at Bukit Batok Nature Park also good for diving... Can do diving atop that small cliff..

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drifter

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Jokes and jibes aside, I think no swimmer however desperate and suicidal would choose to die in water. It's very hard because of trained reflex. It's like a bicyclist or motorcyclist. Once you can balance on two wheels, you can always balance on two wheels by reflex without thinking about it.

Yes that I agreed with you ..
 

Avenger

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go for eye.. legs.. nose .. teeth .. ass .. boobs .. tongue .. operation . and then learn to speak English .. will get more close to ang moh looks.. more confident..
 

Received_by_Kings

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Many woman tell me they are attracted to man with confidence..I'm think and think and reply them that "ohh..then it also means they must be rich "..but they said "not true"..this really puzzles me.:confused:
If a man has a lot of self confidence and yet is not rich, then something not right to his mind le...or perhaps they also means good looking, cos maybe a handsome poor man has the honour to feel confidence :cool:

GoldenDragon offers a very simple-minded explanation that Jap shina yaoi drifter sucks up totally for some reason.

Of course women LOVE confident men. And men who show them they are in charge. And they are right, the men don't really have to be rich. Money isn't everything. You're another simple one.

There are rich people who aren't confident in the vital aspects, and there are rich people who aren't confident. At all. You'd be surprised.

Also it helps to understand that confidence doesn't always lead to wealth, don't think of them as being non mutually-exclusive as it's not true. It's about weighing and understanding your strengths versus your circumstances. If you are comfortable being what you are without the trappings of wealth then that alone is confidence too. I know because I have friends like that.

Really you are too simple, sometimes naive.
 
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