Cheating on partner/spouse is very common in Singapore nowadays

[glockman]

You plucked the forbidden apple?

Yep, they're always sweeter!

 

[glockman]

Did you impregnate them? If so, abortion or allow illegitimate offsprings?

No I did not, I was careful. Or should I say I was masterful.

 

[bigozt]

this Cuntent creator very kaypoh others biz, no time to get own fucks. Get a life

 

[A Singaporean]

Of course must cheat. Otherwise how to be satisfied with 3 inches ?

 

[cocobobo]

I can understand people cheating 10 years ago.

Today? CCTV, airtags, video calls, live location, etc. If you manage to cheat, that means your partner close one eye. Maybe they also guilty

 

[knowwhatyouwantinlife]

Singaporean men are trained early to abandon desirability and replace it with obedience, because attraction is optional but compliance pays the bills. Lacking looks, they compensate with loyalty, silence, and availability—romance rebranded as customer service.

Women, meanwhile, don’t want beta males any more than one wants a security camera or a washing machine. Betas are retained, not desired: to drive, to pay, to manage inconvenience. Attraction is reserved for alpha males; betas are kept precisely because they inspire none. Control works best when desire is absent, and nothing is easier to control than someone who believes being useful is the same as being loved.

@metanoia KYM ?​

Great summary of modern marriages and why they fail

 

[tobelightlight]

Singaporean men are trained early to abandon desirability and replace it with obedience, because attraction is optional but compliance pays the bills. Lacking looks, they compensate with loyalty, silence, and availability—romance rebranded as customer service.

Compliance lead to early death. Just ask them if they are vaccinated. No need to check so much. This is more straight forward.

 

[rocket]

Singaporean men are trained early to abandon desirability and replace it with obedience, because attraction is optional but compliance pays the bills. Lacking looks, they compensate with loyalty, silence, and availability—romance rebranded as customer service.

Women, meanwhile, don’t want beta males any more than one wants a security camera or a washing machine. Betas are retained, not desired: to drive, to pay, to manage inconvenience. Attraction is reserved for alpha males; betas are kept precisely because they inspire none. Control works best when desire is absent, and nothing is easier to control than someone who believes being useful is the same as being loved.

@metanoia KYM ?​

Very chim life learning

 

[rocket]

I can understand people cheating 10 years ago.

Today? CCTV, airtags, video calls, live location, etc. If you manage to cheat, that means your partner close one eye. Maybe they also guilty

Some kept quiet to make sure family remains as a family. Kids will have daddy by their side.

 

[Papsmearer]

That's true, I have fucked a few sinkie married women.

 

[cowbellc]

How common is cheating in Singapore?​

today a married coworker (in her 40s) got caught making out with another engaged coworker (mid 20s) in an empty meeting room

but my other coworkers told me that theres alot of such cases, but many of them go unnoticed because theyre actively trying to hide it from everyone else. was told that this was quite common in the corporate world, where many people are stressed by work and generally unhappy with their marriages, so they find comfort in the opposite sex that they work with the most.

a few weeks ago I found out a friend of mine, who ive always known to be really innocent and nice, was secretly cheating on her boyfriend too.

quite crazy, seeing how many of them look really happy on the outside with their partners, but all sorts of hidden things going on behind the scenes… is this commonplace outside corporate and generally in singapore too?

would like to hear from people whove seen it all - or even worse, are actually cheating right now

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tokkitokka
•2d ago

Surprisingly common.

Had a friend who got married in January, and is living separately from her husband as their BTO isn’t ready yet. In late August she found out she was pregnant with another guy’s baby. The guy she had affair with was already married for more than 10 years.

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ParkingFerret3928
•2d ago•Edited 2d ago

1. An MD (early-50s, married with one teenage son) had an affair with an assistant manager in his reporting line. Divorced his wife of 20 years. The MD eventually married her, but first she had to move away to another unit, out of his reporting line.
2. A VP (mid-40s, married with 2 kids) was having an affair with a manager from a different reporting line. His wife found out and divorced him. The VP eventually dumped the manager and married someone from a different industry.
3. A senior manager in her late-30s was dating another SM, 40s who’s an expat. Turns out that he had a family back in his home country. Assaulted him when she found out. Cops got called, but she wasn’t charged. Both left the organisation soon after.

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abadi1985
•2d ago

I was shocked when I found out that the "husband" colleague introduced us to was her affair partner, who is also married. My colleague was married too. They later broke up and she started going out with another married man.

It was the talk of our floor and our (male) boss had to give her the "I hate to intervene, it's none of our business, but people talk and it takes away from their work." Basically to keep it low.

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SassyNec
•2d ago

My ex colleague divorced his wife (they were in their early 30's) after he caught her for the 5th time fucking other men, different men each time.

Here we see the woman loves being humped by everyone besides her man.
And here we see a man tolerated his wife till the 5th affair.

Why 5th affair then he divorced her? The 5th guy was from his company, his colleague.
There was no way it can be kept under wraps.

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luckycloverandroses
•2d ago

1. Someone told me that when he was married, his wife (now divorced) celebrated his birthday with him with a good dinner and afterwards she cabbed to her bf’s house after his birthday dinner to spend the night at the bf’s place… he found texts on her telegram that can be scrolled, and a lot of intimate details especially reading about how his wife was messaging that guy on “how much she misses him” and all when he’s beside her in the room.
2. Heard that this acquaintance (girl) cheated on her bf with this another guy, and she confessed that she enjoys having rough sex with that guy in bed, rather than her bf but still went ahead to sign the downpayment of their BTO, just because of BTO…Best part? Her bf knows that she’s sleeping behind his back and cheating and he didn’t even stop her.
3. Also heard another case of ROM where the girl disappeared after signing ROM, blocked her husband, and went to live with her parents instead. So the husband settled all the renovations himself- including the cost, and he moved into the BTO. Not sure if the girl is seeing someone but it felt like she wanted to BTO with him, to divorce him after 5 years, and to get half of the sales proceed. Both of them are in their mid/late 20s.
4. I’ve received messages from MARRIED men in my DMs - asking me if it’s possible to sext, all while their WIVES are beside them either sleeping or breastfeeding, just because they felt that their sexual needs aren’t getting met due to their kid being born, hence the dry spells. And married men have told me that they regretted marrying their wives, and this one guy even said that he’s “not sure if his wife is the one for him, despite having 3 kids with her”!!

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I feel like these days, if one really marries well, that’s what you should consider as successful, to find love, keep love growing and well alive in this kind of society, it’s truly a huge, huge blessing!

My fwb cuckold her husband wif another married man. Divorced when found out.
Then married man dump her. Then she meet me. We get tgt as fwb, then i found out tat she n tat married man still stay contact, despite she says they remain as friend, i just dump her.
Nowadays marriage is just paperwork, married guy piak another married woman is a norm

 

[Papsmearer]

My fwb cuckold her husband wif another married man. Divorced when found out.
Then married man dump her. Then she meet me. We get tgt as fwb, then i found out tat she n tat married man still stay contact, despite she says they remain as friend, i just dump her.
Nowadays marriage is just paperwork, married guy piak another married woman is a norm

I never dump any charbors. I have no emotional attachments to them. They can fuck whoever they want. As long as they make time for me to fuck them, that is all I care.

 

[jymifalcon]

I’ve seen similar messy situations at workplaces, and it really makes people second‑guess what’s going on behind the scenes. I used dating app finder before, mostly for peace of mind, and it helped me cut through the guesswork without snooping through someone’s phone. If trust already feels shaky, having something concrete to look at can make it easier to decide what you want to do next.

 

[uniboi]

I’ve seen office gossip blow things up fast, so people try hard to keep their private mess hidden. Still, secret stuff at work usually comes out sooner or later.

They don’t know paper cannot wrap fire logic, very bold to openly have affairs in office

 

[batman1]

MNC usually got zero tolerance for workplace affairs, if found out instant termination, sinkie companies and government sector all close one eye

Parliament also close one eye.

 

[Narong Wongwan]

Used to be only the men were cheating.
90% of sg men are whore mongers. Ask yourself and look around most every guy you know have been to a prostitute. That’s the sg reality that’s why sbf sex forum is so successful. Whoring cuts across the social divide.

It’s just that now times are changing that the ladies are also cheating. Do not underestimate sinkie culture. They are as promiscuous as they come. Look around and you will realise this is true. Everyone is fucking around. Be it your ministers MPs church members RC grasslooters teachers insurance property agents it’s happening across the board

 

[Papsmearer]

Used to be only the men were cheating.
90% of sg men are whore mongers. Ask yourself and look around most every guy you know have been to a prostitute. That’s the sg reality that’s why sbf sex forum is so successful. Whoring cuts across the social divide.

It’s just that now times are changing that the ladies are also cheating. Do not underestimate sinkie culture. They are as promiscuous as they come. Look around and you will realise this is true. Everyone is fucking around. Be it your ministers MPs church members RC grasslooters teachers insurance property agents it’s happening across the board

Yes, I fucked a few married singaporean women. hehehehhe

 

[nikki800]

It’s true that cheating seems to be talked about more these days, not just in Singapore but globally. I think a lot of it comes down to communication breakdowns and unmet needs in relationships. Technology and social media can make temptation easier, too.

 

[uniboi]

MNC welcome gay farts, they are open to LGBTs.
How come they can't tolerate affair , unless the adulterous pair is scamming their own company?

Govt sector are far more tolerant towards gay farts and open to LGBTs.

 

[eatshitndie]

Used to be only the men were cheating.
90% of sg men are whore mongers. Ask yourself and look around most every guy you know have been to a prostitute. That’s the sg reality that’s why sbf sex forum is so successful. Whoring cuts across the social divide.

It’s just that now times are changing that the ladies are also cheating. Do not underestimate sinkie culture. They are as promiscuous as they come. Look around and you will realise this is true. Everyone is fucking around. Be it your ministers MPs church members RC grasslooters teachers insurance property agents it’s happening across the board

yahor. pinay maids and bangla workers, housewives and neighbors, teachers and students, landladies and tenants, unkers and aunties working in wet market (getting wet literally), etc. billions of sperm flowing and discharging into newater in sg.