Cheating on partner/spouse is very common in Singapore nowadays

[metanoia]

How common is cheating in Singapore?​

today a married coworker (in her 40s) got caught making out with another engaged coworker (mid 20s) in an empty meeting room

but my other coworkers told me that theres alot of such cases, but many of them go unnoticed because theyre actively trying to hide it from everyone else. was told that this was quite common in the corporate world, where many people are stressed by work and generally unhappy with their marriages, so they find comfort in the opposite sex that they work with the most.

a few weeks ago I found out a friend of mine, who ive always known to be really innocent and nice, was secretly cheating on her boyfriend too.

quite crazy, seeing how many of them look really happy on the outside with their partners, but all sorts of hidden things going on behind the scenes… is this commonplace outside corporate and generally in singapore too?

would like to hear from people whove seen it all - or even worse, are actually cheating right now

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tokkitokka
•2d ago

Surprisingly common.

Had a friend who got married in January, and is living separately from her husband as their BTO isn’t ready yet. In late August she found out she was pregnant with another guy’s baby. The guy she had affair with was already married for more than 10 years.

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ParkingFerret3928
•2d ago•Edited 2d ago

1. An MD (early-50s, married with one teenage son) had an affair with an assistant manager in his reporting line. Divorced his wife of 20 years. The MD eventually married her, but first she had to move away to another unit, out of his reporting line.
2. A VP (mid-40s, married with 2 kids) was having an affair with a manager from a different reporting line. His wife found out and divorced him. The VP eventually dumped the manager and married someone from a different industry.
3. A senior manager in her late-30s was dating another SM, 40s who’s an expat. Turns out that he had a family back in his home country. Assaulted him when she found out. Cops got called, but she wasn’t charged. Both left the organisation soon after.

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abadi1985
•2d ago

I was shocked when I found out that the "husband" colleague introduced us to was her affair partner, who is also married. My colleague was married too. They later broke up and she started going out with another married man.

It was the talk of our floor and our (male) boss had to give her the "I hate to intervene, it's none of our business, but people talk and it takes away from their work." Basically to keep it low.

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SassyNec
•2d ago

My ex colleague divorced his wife (they were in their early 30's) after he caught her for the 5th time fucking other men, different men each time.

Here we see the woman loves being humped by everyone besides her man.
And here we see a man tolerated his wife till the 5th affair.

Why 5th affair then he divorced her? The 5th guy was from his company, his colleague.
There was no way it can be kept under wraps.

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luckycloverandroses
•2d ago

1. Someone told me that when he was married, his wife (now divorced) celebrated his birthday with him with a good dinner and afterwards she cabbed to her bf’s house after his birthday dinner to spend the night at the bf’s place… he found texts on her telegram that can be scrolled, and a lot of intimate details especially reading about how his wife was messaging that guy on “how much she misses him” and all when he’s beside her in the room.
2. Heard that this acquaintance (girl) cheated on her bf with this another guy, and she confessed that she enjoys having rough sex with that guy in bed, rather than her bf but still went ahead to sign the downpayment of their BTO, just because of BTO…Best part? Her bf knows that she’s sleeping behind his back and cheating and he didn’t even stop her.
3. Also heard another case of ROM where the girl disappeared after signing ROM, blocked her husband, and went to live with her parents instead. So the husband settled all the renovations himself- including the cost, and he moved into the BTO. Not sure if the girl is seeing someone but it felt like she wanted to BTO with him, to divorce him after 5 years, and to get half of the sales proceed. Both of them are in their mid/late 20s.
4. I’ve received messages from MARRIED men in my DMs - asking me if it’s possible to sext, all while their WIVES are beside them either sleeping or breastfeeding, just because they felt that their sexual needs aren’t getting met due to their kid being born, hence the dry spells. And married men have told me that they regretted marrying their wives, and this one guy even said that he’s “not sure if his wife is the one for him, despite having 3 kids with her”!!

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I feel like these days, if one really marries well, that’s what you should consider as successful, to find love, keep love growing and well alive in this kind of society, it’s truly a huge, huge blessing!

 

[metanoia]

I conclude that in working environment, it is easy to cheat with co workers.

 

[knowwhatyouwantinlife]

Have fun but be prepared to pay...women have brought many an empire down just by being themselves

 

[rocket]

I conclude that in working environment, it is easy to cheat with co workers.

Everyday see each other.

 

[rocket]

Have fun but be prepared to pay...women have brought many an empire down just by being themselves

Yes fully agreed. 红颜祸水

 

[nabeifuckpap]

MNC usually got zero tolerance for workplace affairs, if found out instant termination, sinkie companies and government sector all close one eye

 

[syed putra]

We were taught to play musical Chairs.

 

[congo9]

MNC usually got zero tolerance for workplace affairs, if found out instant termination, sinkie companies and government sector all close one eye

MNC welcome gay farts, they are open to LGBTs.
How come they can't tolerate affair , unless the adulterous pair is scamming their own company?

 

[Dreamliner787]

I conclude that in working environment, it is easy to cheat with co workers.

Especially if you openly advocate women-free life, women will let their guard down.

Note: women-free does NOT mean pussy-free.

 

[eatshitndie]

I conclude that in working environment, it is easy to cheat with co workers.

when one rents a room in a hdb flat also easy to cheat if other roommates are lau virgins.

 

[Truthspeak]

The power of divide and conquer makes sheeple with no moral values.

 

[glockman]

I conclude that in working environment, it is easy to cheat with co workers.

I am ashamed to say I am guilty. But only with two female colleagues and one other from a partner company. All three were married. Anyway, since I found Jesus I realised I was wrong in doing those things. I also blame God for giving us our human nature.

 

[nabeifuckpap]

I am ashamed to say I am guilty. But only with two female colleagues and one other from a partner company. All three were married. Anyway, since I found Jesus I realised I was wrong in doing those things. I also blame God for giving us our human nature.