40+ Male Redditer: Feel really dejected in life.

[Flibbertigibbet]

Feel really dejected in life.​

I’m 40 plus. Married with a wife and 3 kids. Been struggling for the past year after losing my job in 2024. Lost my job because of the annual credit screening which flagged me as someone that exceeded my 3 months salary (due to past mistake).

Managed to get a very menial job which has no pre-employment credit check. But the pay is not enough to cover my expenses. Am trying to get a better job but almost all requires a credit check. I have been denied an offer for 2 jobs due to this (these are not even jobs in the financial sectors). Right now, I have received a verbal offer from a company but its subject to checks. This job can change my life. But as they are proceeding to do the credit check, I fear this will also not go through. Which means another dead end.

I have defaulted with the banks many times. And very close to losing everything. Losing my family, my house and my life. While I am the author of my own misfortune, I just hope that employers would give people like me a chance to work hard.

I even tried to sell my house to settle my debt but HDB refuse to extend a HDB loan to me to downgrade hence I am stuck. I am trying to appeal this but the process is tiring and long. I just come home and smile every day to my family but I know I’m dying inside.

I am lost. And I feel hopeless. I dont see a way out of this as I cannot secure better employment. Some people have very bad criminal records and they can still secure good jobs. But I have a poor credit score and I am ultimately rejected for all the jobs I applied for.

 

[tobelightlight]

I’m 40 plus. Married with a wife and 3 kids. Been struggling for the past year after losing my job in 2024

This is exactly why he feel dejected. So many things to do and uphold. So stress.

Women-free life is the best. Low and no stress, do things that actually you enjoy and chilled. Peace and quiet and healing.

 

[tobelightlight]

He get himself so deeply into the PAP matrix system and he screwed himself.

If he cannot live a simple affordable life and incurred so much expense to bear,then he should live a women free life, it is much healthier for him.

 

[Truthspeak]

This is what happens to the sheeple when they became an obedient slave. They signed up for these digital systems and got blacklisted when they unable to fulfill the criteria

They will finally ask themselves, what is the meaning of life? Lol

 

[Truthspeak]

He get himself so deeply into the PAP matrix system and he screwed himself.

If he cannot live a simple affordable life and incurred so much expense to bear,then he should live a women free life, it is much healthier for him.

Not only that. That guy could be a vaxtard as well

 

[batman1]

He got a wife and 3 kids to support. Tough and stressful life.

 

[VanDick]

His wife is probably sick and tired of sucking the same dick every night. So loser dude might as well pimp out his wife to sell her CB and bring in extra income.