I might be wrong, but I 
strongly suspect she was 
pampered a lot by her late 
father during her childhood and 
probably until he died when she was an adult (and maybe even during her marriage to her ex-husband), i.e. whenever she did 
not get 
whatever she wanted from anyone (whether from other family members or people outside her family or her own ex-husabnd), she would tell her father about it and her father would either try 
his very best to give her whatever she wanted or, if he was 
not able to give her whatever she wanted, he would try his best to 
console her, which caused her to become 
addicted to 
expecting other people (especially 
men) to be 
submissive to her! :(
So after her late father 
died some years ago, she was 
suddenly deprived of her 
one and only reliable SLAVE, i.e. her "mangina" father, which was probably the 
fundamental cause of the 
gradual deterioration of her 
mental/psychological/spiritual health during the past few years, 
especially after she migrated to JB roughly five years ago.
Ever since then, whenever she does 
not get whatever she wants (e.g. wanting her JB neighbours to behave themselves according to her own "high class/SES" standards), she has no other choice but to deal with her problems with
out her 
father's help; but even then, she still wants 
men to 
serve her by helping her 
solve her problems, which is why she has contacted the 
police in 
both Singapore and Malaysia (and which is also why she has dared us to call the "police or polis") quite a few times.
This 
addiction of hers (i.e. 
always expecting other people to give her 
whatever she wants) has caused her to 
feel like a "victim" 
whenever she does 
not get whatever she wants, which has 
naturally resulted in her:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Playing_the_Victim
("
Victim playing (also known as playing the victim, victim card or self-victimization) is the fabrication of victimhood for a variety of reasons such as to justify abuse of others, to manipulate others, a coping strategy or attention seeking.")