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‘China Does Not Have Any Men Suitable For Me’
A Shanghai Jiaotong University female’s views on marriage. <!-- 上海交大女生的婚嫁观
作者:自称为上海交大足球啦啦队的队长
我是上海交大的一名女大学生,我第一次发帖子,写的不好,请大家表笑偶。-->
Author: Self-professed leader of the Jiaotong University football [soccer] cheerleading team.
I am a female student of Shanghai Jiaotong University. It’s my first time writing a post. Please don’t laugh at my bad writing.
<!-- 每个人都有人生理想,有的人想成为英雄,有人的想成为富翁,有的人渴望成为领袖,我呢?人生最大的愿望就是嫁给一个西方男人。有人会说我很庸俗,甚至崇洋媚外,可我是一个很传统的女孩子,对我来说,人生中最重要的就是婚姻,现在有句话很流行,读的好不如嫁的好,嫁个好男人比什么都重要。-->
Everyone has an ideal in life. Some wants to become a hero, some wants to become rich, some other desires to become a leader. So what about me? My greatest wish in life is to marry a Western<sup>1</sup> man. Some might say I am very vulgar, or even a turncoat, but I am a very traditional girl. To me, the most important thing in life is marriage. There is a very trendy saying currently, that studying well is not as good as marrying well. Marrying the right man is more important than anything else.
<!-- 有人会说,难道中国就没有好男人?抱歉,我没有考虑过,至于原因,诸位大侠少安毋躁,沙发、板凳、地板任选,听小女子一一道来。-->
Some might ask, “Are there not enough good men in China?” Sorry, I have not considered before. As for the reason, don’t be impatient. Sofa, stool, the floor, take your pick, and listen to this girl’s reasons one by one.
<!-- 一:中国没有适合我的男人。
我是一个很出色的女孩子,从学历上讲,我读的是名牌大学,学业优秀,而且我并不是那种戴着厚厚的眼睛,整天低头啃书本的高智商恐龙,不论身材相貌谈吐我都很出色,我是学校足球啦啦队的队长,业余时间参加本地的选美比赛得过名次,对于音乐舞蹈美术也有一定的爱好,还经常在报纸上发表一些小豆腐块,总而言之,各方面都很优秀。可我能嫁个什么样的男人呢?追我的男生倒是一大堆,身边的女友经常也是成双成对的,可一到毕业大多劳燕双飞,真的要谈婚论嫁,什么户口啊,籍贯啊,家庭负担啊全来了,都是利益的结合,至于婚姻中最重要的内容—感情,反而可以忽略不计。我是一个热爱生活的女孩子,我希望拥有优越的物质生活和美好的精神生活,抱歉,我在中国男人身上找不到,找个同学嫁了,将来到公司做个白领?买的起房吗?-->
I. China does not have any men suitable for me.
I am a very distinct/outstanding girl. In terms of academics, I am studying at a famous university, have an excellent academic record, and I am not one who wears thick glasses or sticks her head into books like a high-IQ geek. I have an excellent figure, an amazing look and a cultivated style of conversation. I am the leader of the football [soccer] cheerleading team. I took part in the local beauty pageants many times. I also have an interest for music, dance and art. Additionally, I often write some gossips for the newspaper. In summary, I am an excellent girl in every aspect. But what kind of man should I marry? There are lots of boys who are pursuing me, and most of my friends have boyfriends as well.
A Shanghai Jiaotong University female’s views on marriage. <!-- 上海交大女生的婚嫁观
作者:自称为上海交大足球啦啦队的队长
我是上海交大的一名女大学生,我第一次发帖子,写的不好,请大家表笑偶。-->
Author: Self-professed leader of the Jiaotong University football [soccer] cheerleading team.
I am a female student of Shanghai Jiaotong University. It’s my first time writing a post. Please don’t laugh at my bad writing.
<!-- 每个人都有人生理想,有的人想成为英雄,有人的想成为富翁,有的人渴望成为领袖,我呢?人生最大的愿望就是嫁给一个西方男人。有人会说我很庸俗,甚至崇洋媚外,可我是一个很传统的女孩子,对我来说,人生中最重要的就是婚姻,现在有句话很流行,读的好不如嫁的好,嫁个好男人比什么都重要。-->
Everyone has an ideal in life. Some wants to become a hero, some wants to become rich, some other desires to become a leader. So what about me? My greatest wish in life is to marry a Western<sup>1</sup> man. Some might say I am very vulgar, or even a turncoat, but I am a very traditional girl. To me, the most important thing in life is marriage. There is a very trendy saying currently, that studying well is not as good as marrying well. Marrying the right man is more important than anything else.
<!-- 有人会说,难道中国就没有好男人?抱歉,我没有考虑过,至于原因,诸位大侠少安毋躁,沙发、板凳、地板任选,听小女子一一道来。-->
Some might ask, “Are there not enough good men in China?” Sorry, I have not considered before. As for the reason, don’t be impatient. Sofa, stool, the floor, take your pick, and listen to this girl’s reasons one by one.
<!-- 一:中国没有适合我的男人。
我是一个很出色的女孩子,从学历上讲,我读的是名牌大学,学业优秀,而且我并不是那种戴着厚厚的眼睛,整天低头啃书本的高智商恐龙,不论身材相貌谈吐我都很出色,我是学校足球啦啦队的队长,业余时间参加本地的选美比赛得过名次,对于音乐舞蹈美术也有一定的爱好,还经常在报纸上发表一些小豆腐块,总而言之,各方面都很优秀。可我能嫁个什么样的男人呢?追我的男生倒是一大堆,身边的女友经常也是成双成对的,可一到毕业大多劳燕双飞,真的要谈婚论嫁,什么户口啊,籍贯啊,家庭负担啊全来了,都是利益的结合,至于婚姻中最重要的内容—感情,反而可以忽略不计。我是一个热爱生活的女孩子,我希望拥有优越的物质生活和美好的精神生活,抱歉,我在中国男人身上找不到,找个同学嫁了,将来到公司做个白领?买的起房吗?-->
I. China does not have any men suitable for me.
I am a very distinct/outstanding girl. In terms of academics, I am studying at a famous university, have an excellent academic record, and I am not one who wears thick glasses or sticks her head into books like a high-IQ geek. I have an excellent figure, an amazing look and a cultivated style of conversation. I am the leader of the football [soccer] cheerleading team. I took part in the local beauty pageants many times. I also have an interest for music, dance and art. Additionally, I often write some gossips for the newspaper. In summary, I am an excellent girl in every aspect. But what kind of man should I marry? There are lots of boys who are pursuing me, and most of my friends have boyfriends as well.