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Nicle Seah: 2013 has been the worst yr of my life with panic attack.

Sinkie

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I recall I did dated her........most probably the 2-3 men she dated, she meant me included.
I did not know she had this impression of me. I did not date her for her public image or political views whatsoever.
Really enjoyed her company while we were dating and is sad she felt this way about me. I really did like her for who she is.
I'm not like what she said. I'm in it for the sharing and loving, not the friends of benefits type of relationship. However, I've
moved on since she has moved on too. If ever she changes her mind, she knows my number.
 

palden

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The blind leading the blind. GMS in stilling blind faith. He can't even fend for himself.
 
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ykhuser

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Nicole Rebecca Seah
GROUND ZERO People usually write these things at the end, or the beginning of the year, but I just had to say this - I'm all of 27 years old, but can safely say that 2013 has been the worse year of my life thus far. Yes, I can already imagine the older folk rolling their eyes. Let me carry on first lah! Post-General Elections 2011, life took a sharp detour. People were more interested in what I was doing politically than professionally, which was annoying because I was doing pretty well at work. There were expectations to be as active as an elected MP. All eyes were on you. You either impressed them to the sky or got brushed off as a load of hogwash. It derailed me from my larger purpose. I started taking on opportunities with the thought in my head "Would this help me get elected in 2016?" Needless to say, when you start thinking about your life in 5 year blocks, you start to get equally myopic about the way you do things. And you start walking in the wilderness, with no larger goal in mind. I carried on with my nose to the grind, feeling exhausted every day just going to work, going for house visits, walkabouts, feeling like I was reading off a script every time I met a new resident because my brain was so dead I was on auto-pilot. I felt even more helpless every single time I met a needy person, knowing that other than referring them to CDC or a private charity, it was completely limiting because there are just only so many hours in a day to really help or invest in someone, especially when you're holding down a day job with no support or mentors. I was naive, arm-twisted into making some pretty bad decisions (Yup, the Presidential Elections was one of them. Terrible, irreversible mistake, completely underestimated what my lobbying could do). I felt like a fraud being invited to speak at conferences everywhere. I mean, I do have an opinion on some things, but I'm not an expert on everything or anything as of yet. I felt extremely self-conscious about the need to appear or look a certain way, just so people wouldn't walk away feeling they've been cheated. I was only cheating myself. Got played out dating 2-3 men who were obviously more interested in my public profile than who I really was as a person. Feared for my family's safety because I was constantly being stalked with rape threats, death threats, people knowing my exact address. I was on the verge of snapping. That was when my meltdown began. Was working in a great agency with some really fantastic, hilarious, brilliant people. I couldn't live up to expectations. Was a cultural misfit. Self-esteem took a dive, professionally lost, complete lack of confidence. Affected my work. I was working through Christmas, New Year, churning 6am all-nighters because there just weren't enough hours in a day and I was burning out from all ends. Then came Feb 2013 - The day I found out grandma was diagnosed with third stage stomach cancer. Something in me snapped and I had a physical panic attack. I still remember standing at the first floor of my office, leaning against the wall, body shaking, suddenly unable to breathe or walk. Blacked out on the spot. I went on 2 months of medical leave, never to return to the agency. Contracted dengue. Sat on a chair in Changi General Hospital, extremely weak, on drip and unable to move for 10 hours because they didn't have a bed for me to lie on. Another offer came along to work with companies in India. The boss promised me I would make it big, get lots of equity, become a business woman of substance under his tutelage. That didn't work out as well. In fact, I got fired right after I came back from London. With no one-month compensation as stated in my contract. Singapore, what employment rights? The icing on the cake was a carefully-timed string of nasty emails that followed. My health took another dive. I was hospitalised for 18 days this time, and spent most of my birthday lying in bed alone. No income for another 1.5 months. Practically subsisted on crackers and water because I was too weak to eat anything else. -- Yeah, it all sucked and I was moping for a bit, but so what? I'm grateful, because I learnt a couple of lessons along the way. 1) Life is 50-50. You can't control most of it, but you can control how you respond to it, and whether you want to make things work. 2) Learn to let go. Many things are like sand. If you hang on too tight, you end up losing all of it. 3) Love unconditionally. It's the hardest skill to master but it sets you free when you don't expect anything, or don't receive anything from the other person. 4) Love yourself, but also pick your battles. And only pick the larger ones. If someone treats you with anything less than an ounce of dignity or respect, have the balls to either give it to them, or turn the other cheek and walk away. 5) Be true to yourself and what you like. So what if digital planning or ad optimization isn't cool? I love interpreting stories from hard data. Don't fall into a mould of what other people expect you to be. 6) Traveling out of a suitcase for months and being in hospital made me realise I don't need many material things. I'm selling off 90% of my clothes and shoes to make a bit of income, and going to subsist on 10 outfits for work. That's all I need. Stop shopping. Stop reading fashion magazines. They make you want to buy things you don't need, or feel like you have to dress in a certain way to look good. 7) Stop taking shortcuts, you only shortchange yourself. The interwebz has made us attention-deficient. We hanker after lists like "7 ways to improve your love life", "5 ways to get a promotion". We think Ted talks are life-changing. But at the end of the day, THERE IS NO SHORTCUT. Read as much as you can, fiction and non-fiction. By read, I mean physical books that you actually hold. Synthesise knowledge on your own. Make your own insights. The biggest challenge here is to be your own thought leader. Don't parrot what other people say. Your brain is yours to keep. 9) Remember what you used to love as a child, before the world changed you. Go back to that. For me, it was archaeology, a little homemade science lab, books, theatre, my violin, Aztec, Mayan, Egyptian ancient civilisations, sitting at a makeshift table reading off the Straits Times and pretending I was a newscaster. Find the joy in those memories and never lose them. 10) When you have a larger purpose in mind, remember that the road to achieving it is a marathon for life. Don't ever lose sight of it, but don't expect success to come to you as quickly as you want it to. In fact, let go and embrace the fact that success may never even come to you, no matter how hard you try. But at least you did. The fear of failure is a social construct. My mom is going to kill me when she finds out I told the interwebz I was fired from my last job. But you only learn through failure. Lastly, whenever you're down and out, remember that the biggest blessing from here on is this - The only way now is to go up.

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which is exactly why nobody vote her into paliment.if not every now and then got panic attack...who going to take care of those residents.
tpl now take good care of their residents.each hosehold will get 1 kate bag
 

cunnosieur

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Another offer came along to work with companies in India. The boss promised me I would make it big, get lots of equity, become a business woman of substance under his tutelage. That didn't work out as well. In fact, I got fired right after I came back from London. With no one-month compensation as stated in my contract. Singapore, what employment rights? The icing on the cake was a carefully-timed string of nasty emails that followed.

NICOLE GOT CONNED BY INDIAN FT PUNDEKS.....
 

ykhuser

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I recall I did dated her........most probably the 2-3 men she dated, she meant me included.
I did not know she had this impression of me. I did not date her for her public image or political views whatsoever.
Really enjoyed her company while we were dating and is sad she felt this way about me. I really did like her for who she is.
I'm not like what she said. I'm in it for the sharing and loving, not the friends of benefits type of relationship. However, I've
moved on since she has moved on too. If ever she changes her mind, she knows my number.

to keep bandwith short, did you savour her abalone?
 

Leongsam

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How is a politician going to manage a country and make decisions that affect millions of citizens when she can't even manage her own life.

This is typical of the opposition in Singapore. They're all talk with no substance. A few minor issues and the panic sets in.

This proves without doubt that Tin Pei Ling is far superior to Nicole Seah. She is so efficient with her time management that she can serve all the needy citizens in her ward plus still find time to track down owners of sanitary napkins.
 

Green Light

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After reading Nicole's, my opinion of her is this:

She is a just a regular girl next door who went into politics for the same reason as why she would pretend to be a newscaster with a big audience on TV.

But if a person is not politically savvy, or has what it takes to walk the ground without melting down, she is better off staying out of politics.

From what Nicole wrote, it is clear that she is not politically savvy, rather she is naïve, and not physically strong. Tin Pei Ling has been walking the ground since June 2011. She did not complain. She toiled and persevered quietly and the last time I saw her, she'd aged beyond her biological age.

I believe one of Nicole's loves is reading which helped her to develop her inborn ability to learn English well. This is an asset which would help her in her career if she chooses the right job.

Her political speeches are at best flawed and only a rehashing of what oppies have been saying, albeit in better English. However, her naiveté has been exposed by none other than herself.

I have serious doubts if Nicole has what it takes to be a Member of Parliament. Good English is not enough. Telling what you don't like about the PAP is not good enough. Give me Mrs Chiam, anytime.
 

Extremist

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How is a politician going to manage a country and make decisions that affect millions of citizens when she can't even manage her own life.

This is typical of the opposition in Singapore. They're all talk with no substance. A few minor issues and the panic sets in.

This proves without doubt that Tin Pei Ling is far superior to Nicole Seah. She is so efficient with her time management that she can serve all the needy citizens in her ward plus still find time to track down owners of sanitary napkins.
TPL has to balance whatever she was doing with marriage. TPL also has parents to look after.

Nicole is single and she 'melt down'

Falling sick is not something which happens only to her grandma. It happens to almost everybody's grandma when they are old. Few and far between are those grandmas who simply grow old and die peacefully without any form of chronic sicknesses.

My fullest respect to Tin Pei Ling. You will have my vote again! Keep it up!
 

ykhuser

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How is a politician going to manage a country and make decisions that affect millions of citizens when she can't even manage her own life.

This is typical of the opposition in Singapore. They're all talk with no substance. A few minor issues and the panic sets in.

This proves without doubt that Tin Pei Ling is far superior to Nicole Seah. She is so efficient with her time management that she can serve all the needy citizens in her ward plus still find time to track down owners of sanitary napkins.

see. great minds thinks alike.
TPL not only give each household a kate spade, she also collect sanitary napkins as hobby.
time proven. tpl shows more substance.she dont gather supports from her look.nicole on the reverse, she got her supports from her beauty
huat huh
 
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eErotica69

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How is a politician going to manage a country and make decisions that affect millions of citizens when she can't even manage her own life.

This is typical of the opposition in Singapore. They're all talk with no substance. A few minor issues and the panic sets in.

This proves without doubt that Tin Pei Ling is far superior to Nicole Seah. She is so efficient with her time management that she can serve all the needy citizens in her ward plus still find time to track down owners of sanitary napkins.

TPL is more for efficient than Nicole? I beg to differ. TPL is paid S$15K as an MP to do a full time job. Whereas Nicole has to manage her full time job and politics.

You can't compare a full timer against a part timer.

Someone with TPL and her hubby salary, they can well afford maids to take care of domestic chores.

Not sure if NS has that luxury.
 

ykhuser

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TPL is more for efficient than Nicole? I beg to differ. TPL is paid S$15K as an MP to do a full time job. Whereas Nicole has to manage her full time job and politics.

You can't compare a full timer against a part timer.

Someone with TPL and her hubby salary, they can well afford maids to take care of domestic chores.

Not sure if NS has that luxury.

it is a test for nicloe to test her capability..without little resourse to multitask.
if she break down, she failed.
if she pass with flying color, we can entrust her to rule our tiny dot.
 

Leongsam

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TPL is more for efficient than Nicole? I beg to differ. TPL is paid S$15K as an MP to do a full time job. Whereas Nicole has to manage her full time job and politics.

Nicole is not an MP. She does not have a constituency to serve.

If she can't handle her personal life, how can she be entrusted with the responsibility of making the lives of others better.
 

eErotica69

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Nicole is not an MP. She does not have a constituency to serve.

If she can't handle her personal life, how can she be entrusted with the responsibility of making the lives of others better.

Agree, yes she does not. But she still has to do her job to garner support within the constituency.

She has does not have the RCs, CCs, CCCs an PAP branch to help her.
 

Leongsam

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Agree, yes she does not. But she still has to do her job to garner support within the constituency.

She has does not have the RCs, CCs, CCCs an PAP branch to help her.

Read what she wrote... this is what LKY refers to when he says Singaporeans have gone soft. Her problems pale in comparison to the issues our forefathers faced when they were rebuilding their lives in Singapore after leaving the motherland.

My neighbor of many years ago was 16 when his father, the sole breadwinner, died prematurely. He had 6 younger siblings. His mother had to work from mid afternoon till midnight as a hawker's assistant daily in order to feed the children while he had to look after the younger ones in her absence PLUS study at the same time.

He didn't suffer panic attacks. He didn't have a meltdown. Despite the huge responsibilities, he emerged from this difficult period of his life and put himself through university.

The baptism of fire separates the strong from the weak. No prizes for guessing which category Nicole falls into.
 

enterprise2

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After reading Nicole's, my opinion of her is this:

She is a just a regular girl next door who went into politics for the same reason as why she would pretend to be a newscaster with a big audience on TV.

But if a person is not politically savvy, or has what it takes to walk the ground without melting down, she is better off staying out of politics.

From what Nicole wrote, it is clear that she is not politically savvy, rather she is naïve, and not physically strong. Tin Pei Ling has been walking the ground since June 2011. She did not complain. She toiled and persevered quietly and the last time I saw her, she'd aged beyond her biological age.

I believe one of Nicole's loves is reading which helped her to develop her inborn ability to learn English well. This is an asset which would help her in her career if she chooses the right job.

Her political speeches are at best flawed and only a rehashing of what oppies have been saying, albeit in better English. However, her naiveté has been exposed by none other than herself.

I have serious doubts if Nicole has what it takes to be a Member of Parliament. Good English is not enough. Telling what you don't like about the PAP is not good enough. Give me Mrs Chiam, anytime.
Yes I agree. She is not ready ... Maybe in 5 to 10 years time once she sort herself out.
 

Leongsam

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Yes I agree. She is not ready ... Maybe in 5 to 10 years time once she sort herself out.

Tin Pei Ling is far superior. She was ready from day one. The first thing she did was woo and land the right man. It shows her ability to plan and strategise for the future despite her tender age.

She could well be the future PM.
 
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