I can feel for you, bro....it is not easy to start from scratch. Sometimes, even wifey do not understand how hard it is to scrape the bottom yet came out short.
I remember when I first bought my house, it was a low cost one 14ft x 55ft. I had to borrow even if it is just RM 6k just for downpayment.
There's nothing to be sad but be proud that what you had today is the result what you worked for. No one can take that away from you.
[QUOTE}If e market price goes below 350k after tat and she still holding on to e hse. U also kena.. 鳥人-full stop.
Bro Potter,
Too true, unfortunately. For some, the minute they bought, they started telling others they were the ones who advised me to start buying. Yet others who didn't buy told my dad too that they were the ones who educated me about Iskandar. Then finally some who bought where i recommended, starting comparing their larger houses and asking me lots of questions on why didn't i do this or that.
Then asked if i didn't have money and asked my wife as well. Wife asked me in the end why i didn't do like what they did. Made me really really sad for over a week. If i wanted to compare with you, why would i want to help you in the first place and get you something bigger than mine? I even cut short holidays to rush from one state to the state just to help out.
No amount of renovation would make you money unless you are renovating with the intent to sell, so i use what limited money i have to invest into more properties. End of the day, these investments will give me free renovation, cars and more. I am not as rich as many here and probably never will be, but i am contented with what limited resources i have. I don't have a rich dad to fall back on but i love my dad just the same. I treasure what limited time on earth i have with the old man and my kids and i am really happy when i see them.
I am the main breadwinner in the family, yes i am also a self made man, growing up, non lifted a finger to help me and many even tried to stomp on me so why would i want to compare with others when i am just an ordinary man, working hard on day and night to provide for the family? Most of my friends just think i work on shift and don't know i work around the clock on different timezones. Technically I still work on all holidays even CNY.[/QUOTE]