Whenever you encounter an upsetting or unsettling experience in life, react not with thoughts or deeds of vengeance, negativity, or bitterness. Such sentiment only reinforces the beliefs that brought the unfortunate event about. Such a reaction only sends out telepathic signals for other people to continue behaving in the same destructive fashion. Such thoughts and emotions only re-create the same reality that causes you unhappiness or displeasure.
Instead, as contradictory or as counter-intuitive as it may sound, send out positive, healthy messages both to yourself and to all people concerned with the event, whether you view those concerned as aggressors, victims, or allies. Wish them well, and wish yourself well. Suggest that your own positivity take over and dissolve all the negative feelings and emotions associated with the event. Let your own positive energies re-create the experience in a better fashion, as surely the energies that you send out re-create both past and future.
What you recognize as important then is not the circumstances that cause you grief, or the need to rectify an injustice, or the need to restore your honour or your good name. Turn not your own reality into a court of judgement where you feel the recurring need to prove and defend your honour and right every injustice that happens to you. Once you begin doing so, you allow others to take over the course of your life. You are only running around in circles, because the underlying beliefs have not been addressed.
You take the initiative by being a conscious creator of your own reality and letting your positive beliefs, thoughts and emotions take centre stage. Reinforce your feelings of self worth and self esteem. Send out positive energies both to yourself and to the people you come into contact with. Under the new framework, there are no more victims or aggressors because those circumstances that created victims and aggressors are no longer reinforced, but allowed to melt away harmlessly.
You create a better reality by taking charge and recognizing that the power and the initiative lies within you.
Instead, as contradictory or as counter-intuitive as it may sound, send out positive, healthy messages both to yourself and to all people concerned with the event, whether you view those concerned as aggressors, victims, or allies. Wish them well, and wish yourself well. Suggest that your own positivity take over and dissolve all the negative feelings and emotions associated with the event. Let your own positive energies re-create the experience in a better fashion, as surely the energies that you send out re-create both past and future.
What you recognize as important then is not the circumstances that cause you grief, or the need to rectify an injustice, or the need to restore your honour or your good name. Turn not your own reality into a court of judgement where you feel the recurring need to prove and defend your honour and right every injustice that happens to you. Once you begin doing so, you allow others to take over the course of your life. You are only running around in circles, because the underlying beliefs have not been addressed.
You take the initiative by being a conscious creator of your own reality and letting your positive beliefs, thoughts and emotions take centre stage. Reinforce your feelings of self worth and self esteem. Send out positive energies both to yourself and to the people you come into contact with. Under the new framework, there are no more victims or aggressors because those circumstances that created victims and aggressors are no longer reinforced, but allowed to melt away harmlessly.
You create a better reality by taking charge and recognizing that the power and the initiative lies within you.
