3d or 5d relationship, conscious relationship.

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U know why I live a women-free life? This is the answer.

3D or 5D Relationships?
CONSCIOUS RELATIONSHIPS!!
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As long as people are stuck in the 3D paradigm they will not find True Lasting Happiness.
That's how it's supposed to be as per design.
The 3D matrix system sets forth that you always need the next thing in order to achieve happiness at some moment in time, in a future that does not exist.

You are now here. This is the only reality where you exist. If you go one step into the future with your thoughts you do not exist...

Within the psychologically controlled 3D matrix society women are raised to believe that their worth is measured by the age at which they get married and their age when they birth their first child.

Everything in the life of a matrix woman revolves around finding a man, getting that man to commit, by all means, no matter the cost. Through this belief system, they are forced to develop a multitude of manipulative low vibrational methods to control a man, the flow of the relationship, and finally, get her partner to put a ring on her finger.

Here is where this process gets ugly: unfortunately, there's a multitude of manipulations men and women alike tend to use in order to control their partner, and the relationship but the most commonly used is emotional blackmail.

What is emotional blackmail exactly?
It’s making a face when you don’t like something.
It’s taking heavy breaths and not saying anything when you don’t like something.
It’s giving someone the silent treatment when you don’t like something.
It’s getting out of the car, the house, the restaurant, etc, or leaving when you don’t like something.

A person who behaves like this will usually go home and then expects the other to call and ask questions like "what’s up or what happened or what did I do wrong?" This is expected in order to gain control over the partner, the situation, and the entire relationship. And if the partner won't do this call they will think of something and call themselves after a few days to regain control.

And what is that "something" that triggers them to use emotional blackmail?
It can be anything that goes against their ego plans.

People have belief systems. "In order to prove to my friends and family that I have a great relationship my partner must act/respond/think/feel, etc like this or that..." That is the ego in full force.

Do you understand that this has nothing to do with love? Do you understand that this has everything to do with co-dependency?
Do you see how this toxic abuse is about control and energetic vampirism and may other unhealthy behavioral patterns but the bottom line is that it’s all about the ego -not the heart.

Control between romantic partners starts with "why do you dress like this, why do you talk like that, you can’t do this in front of my parents, why do you hang out with these people..." and eventually develops into more controlling, invasive, and advanced toxic patterns.

When you take a shower and your partner comes into the bathroom three times to ask you random unimportant questions, that’s a red flag.
So, you can’t even take a shower in peace?

There's no way of winning this, changing it, or getting over it. The only way to keep your sanity is out.

Usually, these people will put their needs first before yours but they will be skilled enough in manipulative behavioral habits to make it look like it’s all about you.
This is almost always unconscious behavior, they are not aware of it, not a bit. Talking about it will mostly lead to more drama and only in rare cases, there's light at the end of this particular tunnel.

True love does not bother you when you take a shower. True love comes from the heart.
The heart will not care about your choice of clothes but whether you’re happy with your appearance. The heart will not judge your language but will be empathetic and feel into your lingo to see where you’re coming from.

A person who operates from the heart will allow you plenty of freedom to evolve on your own rather than scheming on how to get you to commit as fast as possible to something that’s built on lies and control and will not have a future anyway. Manipulation and control are the opposite of love. It's fear, where there is fear love cannot exist.

Manipulative 3D people still have a long way to go. So many chakras to heal, so many blockages and issues to address. Bless them and let them and they’re toxic relationship offer go.

Do this the moment you see the first few red flags appearing because from there it’s all downhill.
The sooner you recognize this pattern, the healthier you will get out of it.

The last thing we need right now is more pain and trauma to heal. We’re in the midst of a world crisis and those who think their happiness is dependent on having a partner or a marriage or a child are still anchored deeply in the 3D matrix which is crumbling and dying in front of our very eyes.

Soon these people will be very lost and in major need of healing because everything they believed to be reality will cease to exist.
It will be a very long exhausting period of the dark night of the soul before they will be able to have a healthy high vibrational relationship with another being based on unconditional love.

It is better to be alone then have a partner who is not anchored fully in love, truth, and wisdom.
And a woman or a man who uses emotional blackmail techniques belongs to a world we do not choose to live in and therefore will consequently stop your ascension process.

There are those who have done the inner work and have dealt with their shadows. Only a person who is whole, at peace and happy with themselves will be whole, peaceful, and happy with another person.

The moment someone is looking to achieve some relationship goal in an illusory future timeline they are vibrating on the third-dimensional frequency and aren't ready for a conscious,
high evolved, sacred ❤️ heart to heart Higher
Love Relationship.

Love Waits,
Lust Wants.
Love can’t wait to give what is true and honorable, Lust can’t wait to take and takes more.
Love Mends.,
Lust Hurts and Break.
Love is Secure,
Lust is selfish and insecure.
Love Lasts,
Lust ends.

Creator and Author.
Mike Harrigan.
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You Are.
We Are.
Oneness.
Global Consciousness..
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[tobelightlight]

To The Ascension LightWorker Collective
THE TRUTH ABOUT BEING SINGLE IN THE FIFTH DIMENSION ,This channeled information is for those that resonate .The real reasons you may be experiencing being single in the higher dimensions is because in this much higher realm you are healed and vibrating at higher levels which makes you incompatible for codependency , trauma bonds and unhealthy 3D connections .

Unfortunately trauma bonds is the template for our broken 3D culture as anyone who chooses peace over trauma will have difficulty in lower conscious relationships as most people you meet are in 3D and are emotionally , mentally and spiritually damaged in many different ways .

Healed individuals vibrating in higher frequencies will only seek lightminded connections , these higher vibrating connections create authenticity ,honesty , transparency , respect , equality , truth , alignment and shared values and beliefs .

Fifth-dimensional relationships bring forth freedom and joy, serving as investments in the interconnectedness of people, places, and nature. They emerge from God’s unconditional love, offering an environment for evolutionary growth and development.

These relationships are extremely different from third-dimensional ones, as they are built to maintain and sustain themselves rather than break down . They support reconnection with our divine nature and are supported by higher realms and our soul families throughout our incarnations, providing a sense of true belonging and higher Ascended connection.

The truth is 95 percent of the 3D relationships and marriages you see in 3D dimensional perceptions and awareness are actually trauma bonded because they feel they need another half of themselves to make them feel whole But are then disappointed because they find they are both dysfunctional mentally, spiritually, and emotionally.

In the realm of 3D , relationships can be a confused and complex tapestry of Ego, dysfunction, health issues , secrecy, infidelity, illusions, lies, criticism, power struggles, control , delusions, hierarchy, psychological confusion , lack of effective communication , abuse , stress, manipulation, and gaslighting intertwined.

All third dimensional relationships were built to break. The third dimensional human beings on this planet were here to experience separation, loss, and fear. Humanity agreed to participate in this divine experiment of amnesia that required our civilisation to find its way back to its Divine Source of its own free will.

Humans are experts in suffering as they took this task seriously and became quite skilled in hurting themselves , others and the Realms of nature here on Earth supporting This experiment. They learned to destroy connections rather than honour them , to the point that they were in great danger of destroying our civilisations and the planet in which we live.

Fifth dimensional relationships are built to Maintain and sustain themselves . In this moment, your journey may not be focused on loving someone else, but rather on authentically loving yourself. It is a time in your ascension level where you may feel challenged to be your own source of Love strength and security.

Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive. Soul intimacy arises from a profound sense of purpose and interconnectedness, based in the understanding of our inherent Oneness. These fifth-dimensional relationships are purposeful, never casual, and do not waste energy on trivial concerns.

They foster collaboration, equality, and a profound appreciation for the roles, service, and love shared. Participants deeply respect and commit to fulfilling the work they have come together to accomplish, resulting in a profound sense of satisfaction and joy.

Ascending Souls , Those you had to leave behind or those who left you and hurt you only brought you back to your true self and in this place you are doing Exceptionally well. You are ascending , rebuilding, re identifying and readjusting, you are being kinder to your self and your soul thanks you tremendously for this , you are now giving yourself the same love you have always given out to many others throughout life .

Self love is the way to raise the vibrational frequency of not only yourself, but every being In every human you come in contact with. God is within not without , this is why Self love is the highest form of unconditional Love you can ever Experience and Embody .

Ascending Starseeds are no longer rushing their heart or relying on others to heal and fix them . Instead, they are thriving on their own. They are striving and healing and are ascending to their higher self and making the meld with source love Creator of all . Seeking God’s love ensures you are filled with love and higher light on a daily basis. The feeling of Love in higher dimensions is what heals and cures all things within you .

Love transcends the mere act of loving another person in this world. It is the essence that radiates from the heart, encompassing love for many others, our ascending planet, the universe, the higher creator realms.

True love is an omnipotent force that resides in all spaces, places, people, animals, nature, and the vastness of our oceans. Unconditional Love is the highest dimension that heals all multitudes of sin. It is found in the realms of Divine connection and Creation .

Channeled with Divine Love for the Ascending Collective , By Ascension LightWorkers . copyright ©️

 

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This is for 3d vs 5d on general relationships

3D vs 5D Relationships
The shift from 3D to 5D almost completely changes our perspective and approach to life altogether and so this will have an impact on the relationships in our life.

As we shift from 3D to 5D our existing relationships can transform in a variety of ways, this can apply to all types of relationships including friendships, family, romantic and professional relationships.

3D vs 5D Relationship Traits

These are some of the ways your relationships may change through the shift from 3D to 5D :
3D relationships will include conditions , possessive and controlling tendencies vs 5D relationships which encourage freedom, sovereignty and authenticity.

3D relationships are more likely to have rigidly defined or predetermined roles governed by societies expectations or conditioning vs 5D relationships which have heart-led freely chosen roles that are openly discussed and agreed upon.

3D relationships are often motivated by concerns and considerations for survival, security and material convenience vs 5D relations which are formed on the basis of genuine unconditional love, appreciation and source connection focused on energetic awareness and alchemy

3D romantic relationships often focus on intimacy on a physical level only vs 5D intimacy which also includes the spiritual, energetic and soul level layers of intimacy.

3D relationships may focus on the outer appearance of ego and projection of the relationships vs 5D which is rooted in genuine connection and inner integrity , and honesty within the relationship no matter how unconventional the relationship may seem to 3D awareness.

3D relationships are often perceived as lasting till death or only lasting as long as you physically acknowledge and interact vs 5D relationships which are infinite connections that can last as a spiritual connection far beyond physical separation.

By Yasmine Dadabahy
Shared by Ascension LightWorkers