whether it is stink or not, it is all about the mind
Buddha says:
An insincere and evil friend is more to be feared than a wild beast; a wild beast may wound your body, but an evil friend will wound your mind.
Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.
The tongue like a sharp knife... Kills without drawing blood.
We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think. When the mind is pure, joy follows like a shadow that never leaves.