Do Not let the pappies tell you what to do!!!
Whether you want to remain single or get married, have zero children or 5 chidren, do it based on what you want and what is best for the family.
Forever wanting to dictate and prescribe lives, always thinking that they know best.
What they do if they want certain outcomes is to set policies in a certain way. Stop telling people what to do as if you know best.
Looking at the way some of them talk and behave, they obviously know shit.
True, I totally agree with you and that is the way I had strucutred my life and now I stand in far superior position compared to so many ppl I know and of course, needless to say, even those I don't know.
But Sinkie are daft sheep leh, led and conditioned by their Pappy master for over 4 decades and this my friend, even with good advices from you, will fail wake up most of the daft sheeps.