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Join Date: Oct 2009
Posts: 7
Default Passion or affection?
A couple of years ago, I was attached to a wonderful guy but shortly after a major change in our lives, the feelings faded and I called it off. Did you ever ask the reason why?
Not too long after, I got together with another equally wonderful guy. But the same thing seems to be happening again! When the guy is the nicest, most accomodating and caring person, his affections can, on the contrary, make me feel jaded and for want of a better word, bored.Did you ever think back of the reason why?
Recently, this other guy started flirting with me excessively and I can feel the latent butterflies in my stomach stirring awake. Both he and I are well aware that there is no feelings or even attachment involved, just the thrill of flirting and the excitement of non-sexual foreplay (if that's even possible actually). I think this is the reason, btw, it is highly possible to end on the bed...
I definitely don't want to two-time my boyfriend. But at this point in time, I'm wondering whether I'm not ready to settle for just 'affection' yet. Or is it just a phase in every relationship that one just has to get through to see bluer horizons?
Newbie
Join Date: Oct 2009
Posts: 7
Default Passion or affection?
A couple of years ago, I was attached to a wonderful guy but shortly after a major change in our lives, the feelings faded and I called it off. Did you ever ask the reason why?
Not too long after, I got together with another equally wonderful guy. But the same thing seems to be happening again! When the guy is the nicest, most accomodating and caring person, his affections can, on the contrary, make me feel jaded and for want of a better word, bored.Did you ever think back of the reason why?
Recently, this other guy started flirting with me excessively and I can feel the latent butterflies in my stomach stirring awake. Both he and I are well aware that there is no feelings or even attachment involved, just the thrill of flirting and the excitement of non-sexual foreplay (if that's even possible actually). I think this is the reason, btw, it is highly possible to end on the bed...
I definitely don't want to two-time my boyfriend. But at this point in time, I'm wondering whether I'm not ready to settle for just 'affection' yet. Or is it just a phase in every relationship that one just has to get through to see bluer horizons?