Redditer : We (23M and 23F) may have mismatched sexual drives.. what do we do?

[metanoia]

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We (23M and 23F) may have mismatched sexual drives.. what do we do?​

I need advice!

So with some context, me (23M) and my partner (23F) have been together for 3+ years, and we have yet to do any penetration. Additionally, I feel we have largely mismatch sexual drives where I would have a higher drive and she has a lower drive, on a scale of 1-10 I am a 8 and she is a 3.

When we first started dating (1st year), we would sometimes be more adventurous and do things more frequently (heavy petting, oral etc). But as time goes on, it has been really stale to the point where it’s been almost 3 weeks since any action and whenever i try to make any advances she would just say she isn’t feeling it and that our drive is different.

For some further context, we have been on a rough patch the past year or so with constant fighting, so i’m sure that plays a part in it too. Additionally, we are both Singaporeans, so we don’t have our own space currently else we go to a hotel. Is there any way to improve this as I feel quite trapped inside on this as I have brought this up many times to her on my needs and wants but it always leads to something south. I used to be someone who jerks off to porn but she is not supportive of that and i understand so.. but i have my needs

Advise would be grately appreciated

EDIT: To clarify on the penetrative, we have been attempting to as well, but is also tough as i would say i have a bit of a bigger tool than average in SEA, and she is a petite size (5ft), and we is both our first time attempting anything aka both virgins.

 

[Vlad Tepes]

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We (23M and 23F) may have mismatched sexual drives.. what do we do?​

I need advice!

So with some context, me (23M) and my partner (23F) have been together for 3+ years, and we have yet to do any penetration. Additionally, I feel we have largely mismatch sexual drives where I would have a higher drive and she has a lower drive, on a scale of 1-10 I am a 8 and she is a 3.

When we first started dating (1st year), we would sometimes be more adventurous and do things more frequently (heavy petting, oral etc). But as time goes on, it has been really stale to the point where it’s been almost 3 weeks since any action and whenever i try to make any advances she would just say she isn’t feeling it and that our drive is different.

For some further context, we have been on a rough patch the past year or so with constant fighting, so i’m sure that plays a part in it too. Additionally, we are both Singaporeans, so we don’t have our own space currently else we go to a hotel. Is there any way to improve this as I feel quite trapped inside on this as I have brought this up many times to her on my needs and wants but it always leads to something south. I used to be someone who jerks off to porn but she is not supportive of that and i understand so.. but i have my needs

Advise would be grately appreciated

EDIT: To clarify on the penetrative, we have been attempting to as well, but is also tough as i would say i have a bit of a bigger tool than average in SEA, and she is a petite size (5ft), and we is both our first time attempting anything aka both virgins.

Drop her immediately. She's obviously fucking others and not telling the BF. For me, if the woman didn't put out after 3 months. I'm gone. Singaporean men are beyond stupid.

 

[glockman]

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We (23M and 23F) may have mismatched sexual drives.. what do we do?​

I need advice!

So with some context, me (23M) and my partner (23F) have been together for 3+ years, and we have yet to do any penetration. Additionally, I feel we have largely mismatch sexual drives where I would have a higher drive and she has a lower drive, on a scale of 1-10 I am a 8 and she is a 3.

When we first started dating (1st year), we would sometimes be more adventurous and do things more frequently (heavy petting, oral etc). But as time goes on, it has been really stale to the point where it’s been almost 3 weeks since any action and whenever i try to make any advances she would just say she isn’t feeling it and that our drive is different.

For some further context, we have been on a rough patch the past year or so with constant fighting, so i’m sure that plays a part in it too. Additionally, we are both Singaporeans, so we don’t have our own space currently else we go to a hotel. Is there any way to improve this as I feel quite trapped inside on this as I have brought this up many times to her on my needs and wants but it always leads to something south. I used to be someone who jerks off to porn but she is not supportive of that and i understand so.. but i have my needs

Advise would be grately appreciated

EDIT: To clarify on the penetrative, we have been attempting to as well, but is also tough as i would say i have a bit of a bigger tool than average in SEA, and she is a petite size (5ft), and we is both our first time attempting anything aka both virgins.

two main reasons :

1. they have been going through a rough patch for the past year or so
2. he is unrealistic and has an ego problem (claims to have bigger tool than average in SEA). Because to a virgin, even a pinky finger is too big.

 

[Sustanon]

didn't read so me comment only based on title. Follow one rule of thumb - piak and creampie and then piak and piak then talk....

 

[bigozt]

Another fake post by Sinkie loser for online attention.

 

[cow138]

Seems like this is a more common problem then people admit

 

[syed putra]

Red flag
Eject
Reason. Woman has psychological problem.

 

[A Singaporean]

Not the woman's fault. How to be aroused by a 3 inch dick ?

 

[syed putra]

Not the woman's fault. How to be aroused by a 3 inch dick ?

No need dick also can.

 

[tobelightlight]

two main reasons :

1. they have been going through a rough patch for the past year or so
2. he is unrealistic and has an ego problem (claims to have bigger tool than average in SEA). Because to a virgin, even a pinky finger is too big.

You post on Reddit one is it, then post it here again for comments.

 

[metanoia]

two main reasons :

1. they have been going through a rough patch for the past year or so
2. he is unrealistic and has an ego problem (claims to have bigger tool than average in SEA). Because to a virgin, even a pinky finger is too big.

Is this you?

 

[glockman]

You post on Reddit one is it, then post it here again for comments.

yes

Is this you?

yes

 

[Hmv]

Drop her immediately. She's obviously fucking others and not telling the BF. For me, if the woman didn't put out after 3 months. I'm gone. Singaporean men are beyond stupid.

In-fucking-deed. She's made him a cuckold and dumb fuck is still oblivious.

 

[50000]

Additionally, we are both Singaporeans, so we don’t have our own space currently else we go to a hotel.

Go to a hotel and no penetration? what the f#*k they do there? watch TV?

young boy obviously book 4-5star hotel and the girl is just enjoying herself there. this kind of girl not worth keeping

 

[WangChuk]

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We (23M and 23F) may have mismatched sexual drives.. what do we do?​

I need advice!

So with some context, me (23M) and my partner (23F) have been together for 3+ years, and we have yet to do any penetration. Additionally, I feel we have largely mismatch sexual drives where I would have a higher drive and she has a lower drive, on a scale of 1-10 I am a 8 and she is a 3.

When we first started dating (1st year), we would sometimes be more adventurous and do things more frequently (heavy petting, oral etc). But as time goes on, it has been really stale to the point where it’s been almost 3 weeks since any action and whenever i try to make any advances she would just say she isn’t feeling it and that our drive is different.

For some further context, we have been on a rough patch the past year or so with constant fighting, so i’m sure that plays a part in it too. Additionally, we are both Singaporeans, so we don’t have our own space currently else we go to a hotel. Is there any way to improve this as I feel quite trapped inside on this as I have brought this up many times to her on my needs and wants but it always leads to something south. I used to be someone who jerks off to porn but she is not supportive of that and i understand so.. but i have my needs

Advise would be grately appreciated

EDIT: To clarify on the penetrative, we have been attempting to as well, but is also tough as i would say i have a bit of a bigger tool than average in SEA, and she is a petite size (5ft), and we is both our first time attempting anything aka both virgins.

go learn all the foreplays and fingering techiques for Japan Master .... then she will all set to welcome U arrival .... but remember to eat Viagra and flap flap first before entry to prevent PE ...

 

[eatshitndie]

swap partners until sextisfied.

 

[bobby]

Hey 23M….maybe your 23F is into women?