Redditer: To those who waited for MOP before divorcing, how did you stay sane?

[Tragedeigh]

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To those who waited for MOP before divorcing, how did you stay sane?​

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Unfortunately, I have lost love for my husband and no longer see having a future with him. I currently have about 3 years till MOP and financially I am not in a place to move out due to the loans we have combined. Somedays are difficult when we are home together but thankfully, we are still somewhat amicable as he is a nice person and I still see him as a good friend who supports me work wise since we work in the same field.

However, I feel like soon I will go insane waiting for my freedom. I feel like I am unable to do things like a single person would just because I am still married. Like if I were to ever meet someone new one day, will I be accuse of cheating by people around me who don't know what's going on in my marriage? I do want children of my own, but with the situation I'm in, I will have to wait a few years at least.

It also sucks that I have been avoiding friends and family because I don't know how to approach the topic whenever they ask me why my husband isn't around during meetups. Only 3 people in my life are aware and I feel like a bother every time I need someone to talk to.

I have tried keeping myself busy with work outs, planning travels and work but at the end of the day I feel so empty.

Would love to hear from anyone who went through or is going through this. Thanks!

 

[bigozt]

Simi lanjiao bitch talk is this? What "nice person", "good friend"?!

 

[knowwhatyouwantinlife]

Means likely guy cannot satisfy girl in bed, either 1. he has gay/like tendencies, 2. Different sexual preferences and drive, usually guy is the the type that likes intimacy and spontaneous sex but girl only can cum in the missionary pos requiring the guy to the do the hard work all the time irregardless of whether he has the mood, is sick or tired 3. Girl wants the orgasm but refuse to be dirty and/or intimate, finds bj and using the guys morning wood, asking for sex disgusting and lowlife behavior for her 4. Guy has ED and no morning wood but refused to treat treatment 5. Guy is addicted to porn

Notice how the post is written..."the guy is good but...." always telling half fuck and half truth stories, want to sound magnanimous, does not want to admit she is at fault but wants to she show is amicable and forgiving yet wants to fuck around but can't do it cos of MOP.

 

[eatshitndie]

if she loved her “freedom” she should have hooked and married a 96-year old rich amdk, acquired pr in amdk land, fed him marbled beef and pork lard everyday until his heart stopped, inherited his wealth, and lived the life of a wealthy widow like many atbs, pinays, and siambus here are doing in sillycon valley. didn’t have to wait for mop or top or flop. could have bought a beachfront home in carmel, driven a porsche, gone on luxury cruises 6.9 times a year, and fucked a new young stud each night for 6.9 nights per week.