Redditer: Need advice whether to hold on or let go

[Tragedeigh]

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Need advice whether to hold on or let go​

I need advice!

Hi all, so me (23M) and my gf (25F) have been together for a few months, and things have been going great. She’s so pretty, kind, caring and everything I look for in a partner.

However, recently, she found out she has leukaemia and needs to go for treatment quite regularly. Ever since the day she found that she was sick, she has been trying to end things with me, saying that she did not want to burden me, asking me to move on, and that I will be happier without her. She also said she did not want me to be sad if one day she really has to leave me behind. But of course I could not do that, I have tried to explain to her that staying with her was my choice, and she did not have to feel like she was being a burden to me. I also tried to reassure her that it is still worth trying for the happy ending that we both want. But alas, the past few days have been her wanting to breakup, saying that it is impossible for us anymore, and then there’s me just trying my best to tell her to stay strong and allow me to go through this with her together.

I’m really conflicted right now on what to do, do I stay? Or do I leave? She keeps saying she will block me everywhere just so I can move on, but she never acts on it, I think deep down she can’t bring herself to do it too. I really want to stay, but at the same time I’m not sure if giving her the space she needs is the better option now..

 

[Dreamliner787]

Let go not because she has leukemia but that she is two years older.

 

[eatshitndie]

can marry, get bto, then becum widower (and single again) if she goes. at least she can die happy knowing someone truly loves her. it’s a karmic debt well paid.