Redditer: M I being used financially?

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M I being used financially?​

I need advice!

M 28 here, currently dating a Chinese-viet (29),been tgt for 4 years LDR now. we met 2-3 times a year, summing up to 20 days/year . Usually trip was shared, 80-90% paid by me and the rest by her. She is earning about 15% of what i earn. she is physically attractive, good in bed and willing to give in to my needs in various aspects of relationship whether we r in person meet up or away from each other.

but the catch is, during this 4 years of Rs, she owe me about SGD6k, from emergency needs for her mistake at work to her uni tuition fees. and her demand for cash (about 5% of my salary)as a pocket money (not included in SGD6K).and she does get really pissed if i don't borrow her money or give her the pocket money .but on the other hand, there wasn't any heavy gifting involved for this 4 years, means there r no expensive bd gift, anniversary gift or Christmas gift, no expensive dates other than $100 handbags/perfume as a gift for every time we meet and this idea was proposed by her and mutually agreed but this year she said she wants a new phone, which is about SGD2k and she will return me a gift which is about quarter/half of that price .

no, there r no cheating involved, from what i know. And i m not fat or ugly.

So the question now is "M i being used financially?" or is this normal in RS where ur partner earn significantly lesser than u or not earning at all?

i do agreed that there should be monthly support for your lesser earning partner in marriage but in dating phrase , is it common to do that ?

any input is appreciated!

 

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M I being used financially?​

I need advice!

M 28 here, currently dating a Chinese-viet (29),been tgt for 4 years LDR now. we met 2-3 times a year, summing up to 20 days/year . Usually trip was shared, 80-90% paid by me and the rest by her. She is earning about 15% of what i earn. she is physically attractive, good in bed and willing to give in to my needs in various aspects of relationship whether we r in person meet up or away from each other.

but the catch is, during this 4 years of Rs, she owe me about SGD6k, from emergency needs for her mistake at work to her uni tuition fees. and her demand for cash (about 5% of my salary)as a pocket money (not included in SGD6K).and she does get really pissed if i don't borrow her money or give her the pocket money .but on the other hand, there wasn't any heavy gifting involved for this 4 years, means there r no expensive bd gift, anniversary gift or Christmas gift, no expensive dates other than $100 handbags/perfume as a gift for every time we meet and this idea was proposed by her and mutually agreed but this year she said she wants a new phone, which is about SGD2k and she will return me a gift which is about quarter/half of that price .

no, there r no cheating involved, from what i know. And i m not fat or ugly.

So the question now is "M i being used financially?" or is this normal in RS where ur partner earn significantly lesser than u or not earning at all?

i do agreed that there should be monthly support for your lesser earning partner in marriage but in dating phrase , is it common to do that ?

any input is appreciated!

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she is physically attractive, good in bed and willing to give in to my needs in various aspects of relationship.

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