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Creepy corporate culture in MNC
DiscussionI joined a pretty well-known MNC (won't name names, but it's in the CBD area) about 5 months ago, and I was initially super excited about the role. Pay is decent, pantry is stocked, and the office looks like super trendy. But honestly? The vibes are becoming increasingly rancid. I’m currently facing a situation with a few male colleagues that is making me feel super uneasy, and I want to know if I’m overreacting or if this is just corporate life in MNC. I mentioned once during lunch that I go to a specific gym nearby after work. Since then, I’ve been bumping into one guy from a different department there three times in a week. He doesn't even live in the area. He will stop his set just to come over and talk to me while I’m mid-workout. And also he will comment specifically on my gym outfit. I am also getting the dinner invites like a quite senior colleague (married btw) keeps checking in on my work via Teams at like 6:30 PM, which somehow always transitions into "I’m heading for a quick bite, come join?" I’ve politely declined saying I have plans, but he just says "Aiya don't be so shy, just one drink only." I’m also getting invites like over the wkend for activities. Is it always like this in big firms? Do I just need to grow a thicker skin or is this actual harassment? I feel like if I report it, I’ll be labeled as the troublemaker or sensitive strawberry. Anyone else experienced this or have advice on how to shut this down without ruining my career prospects?
