Redditer: A question I would like to ask the guys: Would you date a woman you're not physically attracted to if she genuinely loved you?

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A question I would like to ask the guys: Would you date a woman you're not physically attracted to if she genuinely loved you?​

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I'm curious to hear men's opinions on this.

There's a guy I really, really like. What attracts me most is his personality and character. He wasn't conventionally handsome but I still like him because of who he is as a person.

He once told me that when it comes to choosing a partner, physical attraction is important to him. He said he looks for three things: good looks, intelligence, and elegance.

I've asked him before: "If a woman isn’t conventionally attractive, but she genuinely loves you and treats you well, would you consider being with her?" His answer is no. He said he would only marry a partner who meets all three of those criteria.

So I'm wondering, is this how most men think? Is physical attraction so important? Would you be willing to overlook looks if a woman sincerely loved you?

 

[Balls2U]

If this woman loves you deep deep, would you marry her? She's also brainy, educated and rich. There's only one guy so far that I know who's willing to do that.

 

[bobby]

If physically attracted to her neh neh only can ????

 

[WangChuk]

why not? if she rich, bergin and healthy ... off lights or no off lights oso wont affect the hardness and endurance to make babies with her ... age, race and beauty not an issue at all .... we trained NS in SAF one ...

 

[Dongyi]

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A question I would like to ask the guys: Would you date a woman you're not physically attracted to if she genuinely loved you?​

Question Pod

I'm curious to hear men's opinions on this.

There's a guy I really, really like. What attracts me most is his personality and character. He wasn't conventionally handsome but I still like him because of who he is as a person.

He once told me that when it comes to choosing a partner, physical attraction is important to him. He said he looks for three things: good looks, intelligence, and elegance.

I've asked him before: "If a woman isn’t conventionally attractive, but she genuinely loves you and treats you well, would you consider being with her?" His answer is no. He said he would only marry a partner who meets all three of those criteria.

So I'm wondering, is this how most men think? Is physical attraction so important? Would you be willing to overlook looks if a woman sincerely loved you?

A woman should understand that dating and choosing a life partner are not the same. Likewise, selecting someone for casual sex, a short-term relationship, long-term cohabitation, or marriage involves different considerations and should not be treated as interchangeable.

A man may engage in fornication, yet when it comes to marriage, he may still prefer a chaste woman who remains a virgin.

When a man lists qualities such as good looks, intelligence, and elegance as his criteria for a partner, he is most likely describing the qualities he seeks in a potential spouse rather than someone he is simply dating.

So, are we talking about a man who dates only with marriage in mind?

The woman says that she likes him because of his personality and character. However, one may ask what aspects of his personality and character she finds admirable when chastity is not even listed among the criteria he considers important in a partner.

The man is looking for a trophy: good looks for physical attraction, intelligence for her ability to earn a respectable income, and elegance as a means of displaying status among his peers. And he places all these qualities above a woman’s chastity.​

 

[syed putra]

Only if she is good in bed.

 

[tobelightlight]

The first question I ask is if she is vaccinated.

 

[Scrooball (clone)]

Is she rich?

KNN... a woman needs to have one of these right?

Looks
Money
Talent
Personality

If all don't have, then just jerk off to a porn video every night and hire a domestic helper to do chores better!

 

[True Believer]

I know of many ugly men who are only attracted to pretty women who are intelligent and elegant. Unless these men are rich, they will remain single for life.