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Hi fellow parents,

Hope to seek some advice from you.

I just found out that I am 6 wks pregnant. It came as a shock as it was unplanned. Never wanted a 2nd baby and both husb and I were careful most of the time :p.

My DS is already 7 this year :yikes: , I am so taken aback and NOT READY AT ALL!!!!! :shock: :shock: DH is happy of cos as most guys would be :roll:

Reasons why Im not so "enthu" about this pregnancy (in no particular order):-

1) DS is a notti and challenging boy to manage. Gets into trouble in school qt often. Qt blur in school. Needs lots of supervision. He is still a sweetheart nontheless on his good days :wink:

2) Im in my late 30s this year ie not as fit and energetic as before. Cannot imagine gog through breastfeeding and diaper changes and incessant crying all over again! :yikes:

3) Financially we are just nice right now. Not sure how Im gog to put 2 through Uni in Spore. Oseas Uni is out of the question.


Pls do not judge me as different people have different background and financial capabilities.
Im really not sure what to do now :shrug: :shrug: v worried ....

Sauce: https://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=69355
 
Hi fellow parents,

Hope to seek some advice from you.

I just found out that I am 6 wks pregnant. It came as a shock as it was unplanned. Never wanted a 2nd baby and both husb and I were careful most of the time :p.

My DS is already 7 this year :yikes: , I am so taken aback and NOT READY AT ALL!!!!! :shock: :shock: DH is happy of cos as most guys would be :roll:

Reasons why Im not so "enthu" about this pregnancy (in no particular order):-

1) DS is a notti and challenging boy to manage. Gets into trouble in school qt often. Qt blur in school. Needs lots of supervision. He is still a sweetheart nontheless on his good days :wink:

2) Im in my late 30s this year ie not as fit and energetic as before. Cannot imagine gog through breastfeeding and diaper changes and incessant crying all over again! :yikes:

3) Financially we are just nice right now. Not sure how Im gog to put 2 through Uni in Spore. Oseas Uni is out of the question.


Pls do not judge me as different people have different background and financial capabilities.
Im really not sure what to do now :shrug: :shrug: v worried ....

Sauce: https://www.kiasuparents.com/kiasu/forum/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=69355
Kill it. Kill it now don't hesitate. No? Then keep it don't cow bey cow bu. Next.
 
KNN the advice people can give is either kill or give birth KNN next is either suck or poke arse or use condom what else KNN
 
just plain lazy lah. cost is not an issue. she cannot guarantee that both her kids will enter uni.
 
If its a baby girl, get advance or down payment from the whorehouse.
 
If you don't want to have baby... why didn't you or your husband wear protection when having sex ?
 
Never wanted a 2nd baby and both husb and I were careful most of the time

Too cheap to use contraceptives, so used the pull out method. :rolleyes:
 
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