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Pre-enlistment jitters? This course claims to help

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http://www.straitstimes.com/BreakingNews/Singapore/Story/STIStory_622187.html

Jan 9, 2011
Pre-enlistment jitters? This course claims to help
By Jermyn Chow

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Mr Stanley Chua, a former major in the Republic of Singapore Air Force (RSAF), has devised a course to prep them for the two-year mandatory stint for male citizens. -- ST PHOTO: RAJ NADARAJAN

National service made easier: A sales pitch made by a former military psychologist to 18-year-olds who may have pre-enlistment jitters.

Mr Stanley Chua, a former major in the Republic of Singapore Air Force (RSAF), has devised a course to prep them for the two-year mandatory stint for male citizens.

Some 20,000 teens report each year for NS which started in 1967 to strengthen Singapore's defence capability. Some 700,000 people have undergone training since.

Mr Chua's course is believed to be the first in Singapore, though commercial gyms have been selling packages to get pre-enlistees' fitness up to scratch.

Mr Chua, 33, said his courses aim to make the participants overcome their fears, and 'psych them up' before they report for duty.

'Some go into NS with preconceived notions which will be a lot harder to correct if we wait until they only start serving,' he noted.

The former regular, who has a master's in occupational psychology from the University of Nottingham and worked in Mindef's Defence Psychology Department for more than a year, reckons half of some 20,000 enlistees every year would not have had any psychological training to cope with military life.

The other half might have undergone leadership training in the uniformed groups in school or signed up for self-motivational courses.

Mr Chua, who left the RSAF last October, said: 'They are generally more pampered and lead very comfortable lives. NS will be the first time when they will have to adapt to an environment that they are not familiar with.'

This includes having to get used to the demanding physical training, strict regimentation and stern taskmasters like the Basic Military Training (BMT) instructors and commanders.

He set up his consultancy, N.S. Formulas, last month with two other former military psychologists.

So far, more than 100 people have inquired about the courses, of whom 10 have signed up for the NS preparatory one, which begins this week.

They will be taught how to think positively and cope in times of difficulty through role-playing and classroom exercises.

Each participant will have to pay $499 for six sessions, each of 11/2 hours in duration.

Mr Chua has also rolled out courses to help those who want to become officers, or ace their interviews to clinch SAF scholarships. The fees can go up to $999.

The SAF issues a 112-page Recruit's Handbook to teens before they enlist, telling them what to expect during NS and how to mentally prepare themselves.

Parents receive a booklet that gives an idea of what their sons will go through.

Last July, the Defence Ministry started to upload an 18-part reality TV series on YouTube that captured what goes on during the nine-week BMT that recruits go through.

The Health Promotion Board is holding stress-management talks in junior colleges and the centralised institute islandwide till March to tell teens what to expect after they leave school for NS, tertiary institutions and work.

Dr Ang Yong Guan, a former psychiatrist who retired from the SAF in 2003 to set up his private practice, said Mr Chua's NS preparation courses are 'laudable'.

'It is definitely great for the minority who really need help to cope... but it's still quite early to tell if many people will sign up. After all, most people have survived NS and gone on to do very well.'

In his 23 years with the SAF, Dr Ang who held the rank of colonel, said up to two in 100 enlistees were referred to the SAF's Psychological Medicine Branch every year because they had problems coping with military life.

Housewife Lily Sim, 52, is willing to pay to ensure her 17-year-old son - who will enlist next year - is mentally ready for NS, and better yet, do well.

'If going for the course will give him an edge over his peers, why not? Having a good NS track record will be good for his career too,' she said.

But not everyone is convinced by Mr Chua's sales pitch.

Ngee Ann polytechnic student Melvin Poon, 21, who will be enlisting later this year, said: 'My two brothers have gone through NS and coped well without a course; I don't see why I need to pay so much just to learn how to do well.

'Even if it is tough, we just have to deal with whatever is thrown at us.'
 
Unlikely to be value-for-money course. The real motivation is to make money not help the participants.

This task should be undertaken FOC by the grassroot organisations to help our young men assimilate and adapt to life in the SAF. We have many volunteers in the grassroots who once servced in the SAF so getting them to assist should be no issue.

PBM, BBM, Certificates of Appreciation etc should be attractive enough to get these chaps to assist.
 
Ngee Ann polytechnic student Melvin Poon, 21, who will be enlisting later this year, said: 'My two brothers have gone through NS and coped well without a course; I don't see why I need to pay so much just to learn how to do well.

'Even if it is tough, we just have to deal with whatever is thrown at us.'

At least this young man sounds a real man-to-be. Singapore still got hope. What prep course? Hundreds of thousands have gone through it. If he needs a prep course, must be real sissy. If he pays for it, must be real silly.
 
http://www.straitstimes.com/BreakingNews/Singapore/Story/STIStory_622187.html

Housewife Lily Sim, 52, is willing to pay to ensure her 17-year-old son - who will enlist next year - is mentally ready for NS, and better yet, do well.

'If going for the course will give him an edge over his peers, why not? Having a good NS track record will be good for his career too,' she said.
us.'

These two paragraphs say it all. The sales pitch is not aimed at pre-enlistees but at over-protective housewives who worry for their sissy mummy-boy's ability to cope outside her warm apron, or who are so fucking kiasu that they want their precious sissy darling to get ahead no matter what.

Slaves behaving like slaves. NS is already slavery. Now they want to glorify slavery by asking people to pay to prepare for slavery.
 
At least this young man sounds a real man-to-be. Singapore still got hope. What prep course? Hundreds of thousands have gone through it. If he needs a prep course, must be real sissy. If he pays for it, must be real silly.

You make good sense here.
 
http://www.straitstimes.com/BreakingNews/Singapore/Story/STIStory_622187.html

But not everyone is convinced by Mr Chua's sales pitch.

Ngee Ann polytechnic student Melvin Poon, 21, who will be enlisting later this year, said: 'My two brothers have gone through NS and coped well without a course; I don't see why I need to pay so much just to learn how to do well.

'Even if it is tough, we just have to deal with whatever is thrown at us.'

I think most of us who have gone through NS would have noticed that NS enlistees seemed to have softened year after year, and MINDEF has also softened their training programme accordingly to accommodate this change. It is darn obvious that this is solely a profit making set-up, and a very stupid idea as well.
 
This should be something that MOD offers for both parents and their children.

Hold it in meet and greet session with camp commandants, officers and NCO and explain the dos and donts.
 
Amazing. Now there is "tuition" for NS!

Pay to learn how to do well during NS and become an officer and get that SAF overseas scholarship!

Only $499 for 6 sessions of one and a half hour duration if you just want to "pass" NS.

If you want distinction it is $999.

What is NS about? Isn't it about learning to defend the country? Serving the country?

Or is it another "exam", "feather in the cap" to collect?

I remember seeing many recruits who really had a lot of adjustment problems. But the real problem was that their parents were pressurizing them too. All expected "great things" from their sons. Expected them to be officers and even get "sword of honor". It was really hard to reconcile this disparity. One moment I am counselling recruits that are crying in front of me, asking me to help them get out of training because they cannot take it. Next moment I am talking to parents trying to explain to them the problem and how we need to help encourage their son only to hear them reply "I want my son to be officer ok? He should be good enough for the sword of honor. It is your job to train him up to reach his potential".

:confused::confused::confused::confused::confused:
 
Now you have to pay to find out whether you are 'man' enough for NS? Pathetic but this ex Major may not get his sums wrong, there are enough kiasu parents who have been footing their children's courses since they were 1 year old :D
 
actually send the sons to a maid-training agency will take care of 80% of the chores. Including how to bathe oneself :p

The rest of 20% usually psychological:

becos these guys are 'strawberries' :

a) understand the meanings of - cheebye, lanjiao, fuck you, walk some more...

b) the proper way of swearing...

c) how to "knock-it down" without spending too much energy...

Actually, I have a better idea - start a course as early as 15 - 16, call:

Preparing for NS, how to be a white horse or get yourself into white horse platoon...

Like that, you avoid all the shit...duh...:D
 
just another opportunist with the latest money making scheme to compel undiscerning parents to part with their money.
 
might as well use that money for a trip before enlisting.
 
Good points.

Amazing. Now there is "tuition" for NS!

Pay to learn how to do well during NS and become an officer and get that SAF overseas scholarship!

Only $499 for 6 sessions of one and a half hour duration if you just want to "pass" NS.

If you want distinction it is $999.

What is NS about? Isn't it about learning to defend the country? Serving the country?

Or is it another "exam", "feather in the cap" to collect?

I remember seeing many recruits who really had a lot of adjustment problems. But the real problem was that their parents were pressurizing them too. All expected "great things" from their sons. Expected them to be officers and even get "sword of honor". It was really hard to reconcile this disparity. One moment I am counselling recruits that are crying in front of me, asking me to help them get out of training because they cannot take it. Next moment I am talking to parents trying to explain to them the problem and how we need to help encourage their son only to hear them reply "I want my son to be officer ok? He should be good enough for the sword of honor. It is your job to train him up to reach his potential".

:confused::confused::confused::confused::confused:
 
Don't know if you guys are familiar with the comic book story of Steve Rogers who took the super soldier serum and became Captain America.

I always thought some of the parents thought SAF had a super soldier program.

Turning skinny unfit book smart geeks into muscle bound fighting machines.

Maybe some bright spark out there will come up with another "course". The "Captain Singapore Super Soldier Program".:D
 
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