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Lonely Single Women: Why is it such a struggle for single women over 45 to meet a Soulmate
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I don't feel lonely at all. As for sexual drive, to be absolutely honest, I do crave for "it" at times. But what the heck, in today's world, you should know better than me that there are substitutes. I just have to make sure I store them in a "safe" location, otherwise my daughter may inadvertently discover them and I may have a hard timeexplaining such matters to her young mind.
No money leh. Younger man will pay sugar mum anot?
No better family bonding than doing things together.
No money leh. Younger man will pay sugar mum anot?
Darling. No money no boyboy.
remote control vibrator? if kena discovered, you can tell her that it is the latest high tech coffee stirrer.
Darling. You should stick to the good old cucumber, it's easy to keep in the fridge. You just need to be very aware which is toy and which is food. You don't want to feed your daughter the wrong salad.
In today's age, men have become dispensable. We are no longer a hard labour agricultural society. Food is grown with technology, not with strength and hard labour. You may disagree or even refuse to face up to reality, but you will or at least the next generation will have to in due course. I am not a proponent of champ feminism, but it's hard to imagine the world is still lopsided in favour of men in my daughter's generation.
Lonely women are welcum to PM me. I am the cure to loneliness in chiobu. Chiobu only please. If your breasts are one big one small, please refrain my spamming my PM box. Kumsia!
When it comes to romance, we all like a happy ending — which is what makes a new blog by an older, single woman such a heart-wrenching read.
The woman, who is divorced but says she would love to be married again, describes herself as being ‘on the wrong side of 45 with a brace of kids’ and bewails her place in ‘relationship no-man’s land’, condemned to be alone for the rest of her days.
She writes under the name ‘The Plankton’, explaining that, like the plankton in the ocean, she is barely visible and ‘at the bottom of the food chain for love and relationships’. Her outpourings, which convey with unflinching honesty the huge difficulties older women can face finding a man, have caused quite a stir on women’s internet chat forums. They have certainly proved a talking point among my single women friends.
‘I always had boyfriends when I was younger and assumed I would again after James was born,’ she says. ‘When he was three, I started chatting online. These chats were fun — and sometimes quite flirty — but if I ever suggested we meet, the men would often back off, saying they were not looking for a relationship.’
A dozen or so dates followed over the years, none of them quite right. When she last registered with an online dating site she was 44 — and few men made contact. ‘Forty is a huge cut-off point for a lot of men,’ Ruthie explains. ‘There was just one I met and we had a fantastic evening. I was surprised afterwards when he didn’t get in touch.
In a report entitled The Case For An Older Woman, it states that 45-year-olds have a much harder time finding romance because ‘the male fixation on youth distorts the dating pool’.
These attitudes explain why many over-45s — including The Plankton — describe themselves as ‘invisible’ to the opposite sex. Charlotte Phipps is divorced and lives in Newmarket, Suffolk. Aged 53, she works as a secretary. ‘The hardest time for me is when I come home from work at six o’clock,’ she says.
‘My two terriers run barking to greet me, but apart from them, there is silence. I own a lovely two- bedroomed cottage with a beautiful garden, which I enjoy, but night after night I sit on my own watching TV. It is incredibly boring and I am lonely. Whenever I go out, men do not tend to look at me. I’ve lost a lot of confidence.’
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2022102/Why-struggle-single-women-45-meet-soulmate.html
Honey, that's very sour grapes mentality.
At my age, I have men chasing after me. Just because you don't have any doesn't render them dispensable.
Alamak brother, i got serious question to ask you mah. I couldn't understand something, so I though you could enlighten me.
If you have knowledge about yab-yum, can teach me why it exists and why it is acceptable?
If you don't want to use tools, u can use water.
But it is still different league, like reading a food magazine vs dining in person.
too chim. sighzzzz............my language skills no good - harder to find answers
45-year-old is considered as 狼虎之年, the height of woman's sexual urge.
She doesn't need a soulmate, she needs a cockmate.
She doesn't need a soulmate, she needs a cockmate.
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