Need some advice here, especially from bosses and subordinates who have gone through this situation:
(1.) A and B had a dispute at work. A reported incident to supervisor.
(2.) Supervisor chose to use his own approach by directly confronting B. B denied the wrong he has done.
(3.) Supervisor called A and told A "let's have a direct confrontation with B."
(4.) A does not agree with supervisor's approach (confronting one by one will only create lag time and have everybody creating wonderful lies and further accusations against each other. Moreover A and B see each other everyday) A send a sms saying he is not in for direct confrontation, and also told the supervisor he will go to the supervisor's boss should B repeat his nonsense.
(5.) Supervisor finds this sms as a threat and showed it to his colleagues and his boss. Supervisor says he is disappointed in A because he feels if A goes directly to report future incidents, it will make him look incompetent. His boss agrees with him and says the sms is a "potential" threat.
My issues:
(i) Does A have any legal recourse, e,g, sue his supervisor and his boss as they are now intimidating him not to go to higher authorities, that is to cover their own asses? Under what law or section can he sue for?
(ii.) Call log is in A's phone regarding (5.). If he decides to proceed with legal action, can he retrieve the call log? How much to retrieve call log from telcos?
(iii) Any other kind and useful advice is much appreciated.
(iv) If the person involve is reading this, sad to say, you have always been respected as a elder brother and a very fair person, but you are too stubborn for your own good, hence you are always using the wrong approach (always direct confrontation), and creating conflicts among your own team and also your own subordinates, and you are just digging your own grave. You peranakans have a very proud heritage, but if you would have watched Lord of the Rings, the show is just not about the elves. I hope you will change for the better, and also all that is ever done by the staff (esp calling you on your dayoff to keep you inform of work situation so that you have a clearer picture should the boss quiz you when you are back)is to help you look good and get your promotion, which we feel you deserve it.
(1.) A and B had a dispute at work. A reported incident to supervisor.
(2.) Supervisor chose to use his own approach by directly confronting B. B denied the wrong he has done.
(3.) Supervisor called A and told A "let's have a direct confrontation with B."
(4.) A does not agree with supervisor's approach (confronting one by one will only create lag time and have everybody creating wonderful lies and further accusations against each other. Moreover A and B see each other everyday) A send a sms saying he is not in for direct confrontation, and also told the supervisor he will go to the supervisor's boss should B repeat his nonsense.
(5.) Supervisor finds this sms as a threat and showed it to his colleagues and his boss. Supervisor says he is disappointed in A because he feels if A goes directly to report future incidents, it will make him look incompetent. His boss agrees with him and says the sms is a "potential" threat.
My issues:
(i) Does A have any legal recourse, e,g, sue his supervisor and his boss as they are now intimidating him not to go to higher authorities, that is to cover their own asses? Under what law or section can he sue for?
(ii.) Call log is in A's phone regarding (5.). If he decides to proceed with legal action, can he retrieve the call log? How much to retrieve call log from telcos?
(iii) Any other kind and useful advice is much appreciated.
(iv) If the person involve is reading this, sad to say, you have always been respected as a elder brother and a very fair person, but you are too stubborn for your own good, hence you are always using the wrong approach (always direct confrontation), and creating conflicts among your own team and also your own subordinates, and you are just digging your own grave. You peranakans have a very proud heritage, but if you would have watched Lord of the Rings, the show is just not about the elves. I hope you will change for the better, and also all that is ever done by the staff (esp calling you on your dayoff to keep you inform of work situation so that you have a clearer picture should the boss quiz you when you are back)is to help you look good and get your promotion, which we feel you deserve it.