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https://www.reddit.com/r/SingaporeRaw/comments/1qygd4a/working_under_female_bosses_make_me_misogynistic/
22m ago
So I am a guy that work under male and female supervisors. Of course ultimately your supervisor is for themselves first, organisation second and you if theres any crumbs of sympathy. So asking you to OT sure its the Sg culture.
But what I can not take from the female managers is that so many of they will smile and think they are genuine while everyone know she is a liar and a gaslighter. We are only pandering cause we are scared of you. (Not all) Some female managers will smile genuinely or simply tell you as it is according to the rules and books. But many female managers will use the “this is for your own good”, “i am not like other bosses”, “i am protecting you”, “i am grooming your future career”. What career auntie, its 2025 there is no more career. Don’t pretend to be motherly with me, I have a mom and don’t need a second one. You are doing whatever you are doing to save your own skin and your benefit first; just tell me what needs to be done and if you are happy with it or not.
Female bosses who tell it as it is > Female bosses who scream and overcompensate their fierceness because they feel scared > Female bosses who pretend to be nice but ultimately digging your grave before you even knows it
22m ago
Working under female bosses make me misogynistic
So I am a guy that work under male and female supervisors. Of course ultimately your supervisor is for themselves first, organisation second and you if theres any crumbs of sympathy. So asking you to OT sure its the Sg culture.
But what I can not take from the female managers is that so many of they will smile and think they are genuine while everyone know she is a liar and a gaslighter. We are only pandering cause we are scared of you. (Not all) Some female managers will smile genuinely or simply tell you as it is according to the rules and books. But many female managers will use the “this is for your own good”, “i am not like other bosses”, “i am protecting you”, “i am grooming your future career”. What career auntie, its 2025 there is no more career. Don’t pretend to be motherly with me, I have a mom and don’t need a second one. You are doing whatever you are doing to save your own skin and your benefit first; just tell me what needs to be done and if you are happy with it or not.
Female bosses who tell it as it is > Female bosses who scream and overcompensate their fierceness because they feel scared > Female bosses who pretend to be nice but ultimately digging your grave before you even knows it