i need help genuinely too

[Alamaking]

You are lucky, you know the parents.

Just tell her that you will have to speak to your parents if an arrangement can't be done. Most people will do something. Then if nothing happens go to the parents.

Thats precisely what I wanna do, its not that I'm childish or anything, I dun want to implicate 3rd parties, keep within both sides is the best solution.

 

[Alamaking]

We had the same problem.

This used to be on my table when it was all mine. :(

CB, you dun take anyhow from other picture hor, mine is genuine hor

with my Dutch jersey, LOL

 

[krafty]

sigh...i am not denying anything:( but this is mixture of my medicine cocktail: http://www.channelnewsasia.com/finance/

hey krafty...u sounds saner today...see, the medicine is working...pls continue to take it.

 

[streetsmart73]

hey krafty...u sounds saner today...see, the medicine is working...pls continue to take it.

hi there


1. red, bingo!
2. honest, i think so too.
3. krafty can be hot, cold or delusional here!
4. some cracked pot.

 

[po2wq]

... This used to be on my table when it was all mine. :( ...

u threw away ur table? ...

 

[Maximilian Chua-Heng]

KNN! nah my fav hush puppies ter kor! Genuine one hor!

CB, you dun take anyhow from other picture hor, mine is genuine hor

with my Dutch jersey, LOL

 

[Alamaking]

KNN! nah my fav hush puppies ter kor! Genuine one hor!

WTf... ok, let you win this time..... LOL

 

[red amoeba]

WTf... ok, let you win this time..... LOL

size of lai-kor...looks like kid-size deh...

 

[Talking Donkey]

Thats precisely what I wanna do, its not that I'm childish or anything, I dun want to implicate 3rd parties, keep within both sides is the best solution.

Agree on that.

It is heartening to know that many bros here has lend money out of kindness and wanting to help some friends but was very discourage when that ungrateful bugger gave all kinds of millions excuses or pay back less than what you have lend.

I'm not as rich as the owner of this sammyboy forum who says he has got plenty of money.
but in the 90s and early 00s i was quite successful in my career and do make quite abit of money.
and these are blood money through honest hard work and sweat,i was a workholic even sometimes during CNY or xmas i was still working.
But i'm a person that is very soft hearted and naive always willing and ready to help others without hesitation.
i guess thats where my friends and some of my relatives took advantage of this situation..

of all the money that i've lend out only two genuine friends pay me back,a $50k and $6k loan..
the rest amounting to about $145k has grown wings and fly away..

looking back it hurts but i've since moved on and is now more positive thinking in life.

 

[Maximilian Chua-Heng]

size of lai-kor...looks like kid-size deh...

Thanks for the compliments. Yes I have a tight bum! :p

 

[HedgeTrader]

Remember this song by 高凌风

借钱
不借不还是上等人
有借有还是中等人
有借不还是太伤人

 

[Alamaking]

Thanks for the compliments. Yes I have a tight bum! :p

you mean you got perky bum? lookout for krafty

 

[Alamaking]

...... looking back it hurts but i've since moved on and is now more positive thinking in life.

It's damn sad and hurtful when you try to help, in the end you have to beg your money to be returned.... damn sianz....

 

[HedgeTrader]

it's damn sad and hurtful when you try to help, in the end you have to beg your money to be returned.... Damn sianz....

站着借，跪着讨 lol

 

[red amoeba]

站着借，跪着讨 lol

站着借，跪着讨, 躺着还 lol

 

[Alamaking]

站着借，跪着讨, 躺着还 lol

站着借，跪着讨, 躺着还, 自己吃自己

 

[HedgeTrader]

站着借，跪着讨, 躺着还 lol

LOL good one but donch think Alamaking so weak can manage even to collect that 躺着还 LOL

 

[Unrepented]

Go her office (if she has one), smile and ask her nicely. Say you have difficulty contacting her so look her up at her office, ....... she would have gotten the message and let her imagination run wild.

Tell her you will meet her at her office in a week's time to get back you money.

After that dont listen to her calls.

I lend a female friend 5 figures sum, I have hard time getting the money back from her, how to ask nicely har?

 

[cass888]

Like I say, two options:

1. Lawyer
2. Samseng

Agree on that.

It is heartening to know that many bros here has lend money out of kindness and wanting to help some friends but was very discourage when that ungrateful bugger gave all kinds of millions excuses or pay back less than what you have lend.

I'm not as rich as the owner of this sammyboy forum who says he has got plenty of money.
but in the 90s and early 00s i was quite successful in my career and do make quite abit of money.
and these are blood money through honest hard work and sweat,i was a workholic even sometimes during CNY or xmas i was still working.
But i'm a person that is very soft hearted and naive always willing and ready to help others without hesitation.
i guess thats where my friends and some of my relatives took advantage of this situation..

of all the money that i've lend out only two genuine friends pay me back,a $50k and $6k loan..
the rest amounting to about $145k has grown wings and fly away..

looking back it hurts but i've since moved on and is now more positive thinking in life.

 

[Jah_rastafar_I]

of all the money that i've lend out only two genuine friends pay me back,a $50k and $6k loan..
the rest amounting to about $145k has grown wings and fly away..

looking back it hurts but i've since moved on and is now more positive thinking in life.

No offence to you and it's a good trait of you to have a kind heart BUT still that image you potrayed was of someone that was a sucker and weak someone to be taken advantage of.