Yah all these come with efforts, she's one of the ugliest woman I had met, but her personalities really attracts me. So there were times when I felt tempted too. When things happened, that is when love gets strengthened. When I was diagnosed with cancer, my wife was due to deliver anytime. Her frd ( also my frd's wife) came to visit. In front of me, she told my wife.
" Since ur hubby barely got enuf insurance money to cover his medical fee, u should divorce him now. Sell the flat and spit the profit and take the custody of ur child. Then if he doesn't recover, for sure u dun ve to bear his medical bills. If he recovers, u can claim more alimony from him bcoz the child is with u. This is the best move, u got nothing to lose and everything to gain!"
My wife chased her out, literally. I personally thought that what that frd said is true, my wife would have forsaken me, rub salt to my wound by divorcing me and abandoning me financially. But she did not, she actually KNNBCCB her frd.
I lived off her the entire year when I was going through treatment. She too, treated me with respect. She wasn't rude or lost her temper just bcoz I was living off her.
See ppl like us, take a crisis to learn how to love and learn what is true love. Even if she want to kpkb all she wants I also dun mind. We dun ve many yrs left. Dr gave me 5, if good 10. Same goes for her. That's Y I treasured what I have and I stopped comparing her and other women. Coz I knw other women won't do what she did for me and they dun ve what she has.
Well if u r the playful type then marriage may not be a good idea. I got a frd in oil biz, sleeps ard a lot but when he is HIV positive, only his wife sticks to him. Think abt it. What do u want with ur life?
) ...if not i really need viagra liao 
anyway as i mention before , i dont have to sleep with all the woman i know , i just enjoyed the road of courtships...maybe it makes me mentally young again ..and to show that im still ahemmmmmmmm...attractive 
