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here is what i did 9 years ago.
1. tell your immediate family that you are going to study in the new country for 4 years.
2. 4-5 years later, after you have got your new citizenship and renounced the sg one (i burnt my sg passport in my fireplace...it was a great feeling...something akin to getting out of a mental asylum and a cesspool....) you start telling your parents about your life there and see if they are interested.
for me, i have no relatives i talk with on my mother's side, they are all lunatics there...zero education, zero brains and zero manners...typical first-second generation chink peasants...
my father's side, we are close. they are international, cousins in germany, uncles in france, etc, so if my cousins wants to come over for a better life i have no problem with helping them wherever i can...but they are living all over the world anyway.
parents still in sg, but come over for holiday every now and then. each time they come over, and each time i meet a singaporean or korean or chinese, i feel a tinge of fear thinking about the big mental asylum that singapore.... :p
1. tell your immediate family that you are going to study in the new country for 4 years.
2. 4-5 years later, after you have got your new citizenship and renounced the sg one (i burnt my sg passport in my fireplace...it was a great feeling...something akin to getting out of a mental asylum and a cesspool....) you start telling your parents about your life there and see if they are interested.
for me, i have no relatives i talk with on my mother's side, they are all lunatics there...zero education, zero brains and zero manners...typical first-second generation chink peasants...
my father's side, we are close. they are international, cousins in germany, uncles in france, etc, so if my cousins wants to come over for a better life i have no problem with helping them wherever i can...but they are living all over the world anyway.
parents still in sg, but come over for holiday every now and then. each time they come over, and each time i meet a singaporean or korean or chinese, i feel a tinge of fear thinking about the big mental asylum that singapore.... :p