Correction, I practise 大中小通吃 strategy, hokay!

As for
@bigcockman, my advice to you : Stay single play the field, earn money, afford yourself the finer things in life. If you have a fantastic woman (big tits, tight pussy, pretty, sexy as hell and she swallows), spell it out that both of you can cohabit but marriage is not on the agenda.
If, you reckon she is really that super special, and want to own her, then marry her. But never ever ever ever have kids. She is a money pit (like 110% of women), kids will not only suck away your money, but your sanity and happiness. I have three friends who are married, no kids. Everyday is macham honeymoon. No little fuckers to cause stress and tension. Your wife's only role is wife, not a mother to some little ingrates. You get her full attention and devotion.
If I could live my life over (rather in my next life), I will do exactly the above. Listen to Uncle Glock, I won't bluff you one.