Re: For those who think I am mad. Please provide the answers for these questions.
And you and your family never left Johor for spore lah, all still in JB...
Believe it or not, my father's parents were the first (among their siblings) to migrate to Singapore from Johor in 1945/46; but after that, most of their siblings and siblings' descendants remained in JB or migrated to KL; and I've visited them quite a number of times since my childhood until my late 20s when I stopped because, just like you, I also don't like
most Chinese Malaysians (or at least those that I've interacted with), whether they are my relatives or not. :(
And I think you should be aware that there are many other Sinkies who have relatives that remained in Malaysia after the Japanese left in 1945, right?
Anyway, just like some other sammyboy.com members have advised you, I also advise you to
move back to Singapore.