Serious Do you think that my actions and feelings are considered cheating?

[bigcockman]

As you all know, I am already in a serious relationship with my GF for a few of years now. However, things can get boring when we know each other too well. The urge to discover more of her is slowly depreciating. It's sort of like there's hardly anything unique to pique my emo and feel.

Is this phenomena normal for senior Sammyboyers here as well, given your rich lifelong relationship experience?

Then last month, a new lady joined our team at work. She is pleasant looking and she dresses very well. And she would always change into her body hugging gym top and tights at the end of the working day. I assume she's going for fitness class after work.

Every time I get to interact with her for work or during team meals, I sort of feel enjoyable. It's like discovering a new person (woman), going into the unknown and this feeling excites me a lot.

So after two weeks, I got quite close to her. She would approach me for help in her work and I would patiently teach her how to operate around the loopholes in system. She would always give me a warming smile of thanks, displaying her nice alluring dimples. This sort of make me feel "man" and happy.

Today morning was the first time we flirted with each other.

Please don't get me wrong. We did not get physical. No kissing, petting or even hugging. We just flirted verbally.

Out of the blue and instinctively, I told her she "looks sexy" today and her "bosom" are "big and enticing". She just smiled and said "thank you". I guessed I was lucky. Maybe she was in a very good mood. With hindsight, I must confess that it was an indiscretion on my part, even though I blurted out instinctively, without any ulterior motive. It could very well be sexual harassment if she had reported me to HRD.

Then during our afternoon tea break which we went together, she started asking me personal questions like "How often do I have sex with my girlfriend?" and also asked to see my GF's pictures in my mobile phone. She said my GF looks sexy and beautiful and I am a "lucky" man.

Then in the midst of our tea break, she suddenly took out her phone and asked if I mind taking a wefie together. I felt really weird why she wanted a wefie in a food court, but she just went ahead without my consent. I do not deny I am good looking, but this is all too weird and I cannot comprehend her wefie saga.

After our tea break, I also noticed that while walking and going up in the lift back to the office, she stood very close to me. I could smell her hair shampoo fragrance and also her pleasing body perfume. To be honest, I felt good. And I did feel a tingling sensation of hardening in my pants.

But now, on the way back home from work in the MRT (not driving today because my GF says she needs the car to help her Malaysian friend) and reflecting on my actions and feelings, I am feeling guilty.

Do you senior Sammyboyers think that my actions and feelings are considered cheating on my GF?

Or based on your years of experience, I am making a mountain out of a molehill of my emo and worrying too much over nothing.

I would greatly appreciate your kind and serious advice.

 

[zhihau]

Well, that escalated rather quickly.

 

[bigcockman]

Well, that escalated rather quickly.

I don't understand what you mean. Do you mind elaborating your post?

 

[batman1]

As a superior,u must know the difference between flirting and sexual harrassment in office.

 

[zhihau]

I don't understand what you mean. Do you mind elaborating your post?

do you like this new colleague of yours?

 

[bigcockman]

do you like this new colleague of yours?

I sort of find her attractive. She does have a charming and alluring personality. She's also very cheerful and bubbly and she doesn't give me a black face like my current GF.

 

[bigcockman]

As a superior,u must know the difference between flirting and sexual harrassment in office.

Do you mind elaborating the difference with exmples for my learning experience? By the way, I am not her superior. We are sort of same manager title.

 

[glockman]

Do you mind elaborating the difference with exmples for my learning experience? By the way, I am not her superior. We are sort of same manager title.

Son, don't need so law sor, life is short. Just fuck her and be done with it.

 

[winners]

As you all know, I am already in a serious relationship with my GF for a few of years now. However, things can get boring when we know each other too well. The urge to discover more of her is slowly depreciating. It's sort of like there's hardly anything unique to pique my emo and feel.

Is this phenomena normal for senior Sammyboyers here as well, given your rich lifelong relationship experience?

Then last month, a new lady joined our team at work. She is pleasant looking and she dresses very well. And she would always change into her body hugging gym top and tights at the end of the working day. I assume she's going for fitness class after work.

Every time I get to interact with her for work or during team meals, I sort of feel enjoyable. It's like discovering a new person (woman), going into the unknown and this feeling excites me a lot.

So after two weeks, I got quite close to her. She would approach me for help in her work and I would patiently teach her how to operate around the loopholes in system. She would always give me a warming smile of thanks, displaying her nice alluring dimples. This sort of make me feel "man" and happy.

Today morning was the first time we flirted with each other.

Please don't get me wrong. We did not get physical. No kissing, petting or even hugging. We just flirted verbally.

Out of the blue and instinctively, I told her she "looks sexy" today and her "bosom" are "big and enticing". She just smiled and said "thank you". I guessed I was lucky. Maybe she was in a very good mood. With hindsight, I must confess that it was an indiscretion on my part, even though I blurted out instinctively, without any ulterior motive. It could very well be sexual harassment if she had reported me to HRD.

Then during our afternoon tea break which we went together, she started asking me personal questions like "How often do I have sex with my girlfriend?" and also asked to see my GF's pictures in my mobile phone. She said my GF looks sexy and beautiful and I am a "lucky" man.

Then in the midst of our tea break, she suddenly took out her phone and asked if I mind taking a wefie together. I felt really weird why she wanted a wefie in a food court, but she just went ahead without my consent. I do not deny I am good looking, but this is all too weird and I cannot comprehend her wefie saga.

After our tea break, I also noticed that while walking and going up in the lift back to the office, she stood very close to me. I could smell her hair shampoo fragrance and also her pleasing body perfume. To be honest, I felt good. And I did feel a tingling sensation of hardening in my pants.

But now, on the way back home from work in the MRT (not driving today because my GF says she needs the car to help her Malaysian friend) and reflecting on my actions and feelings, I am feeling guilty.

Do you senior Sammyboyers think that my actions and feelings are considered cheating on my GF?

Or based on your years of experience, I am making a mountain out of a molehill of my emo and worrying too much over nothing.

I would greatly appreciate your kind and serious advice.

It's a big waste that you didn't work as a script writer for Mediacorp.

 

[A Singaporean]

Man is a tea pot and woman a tea cup. One tea pot can fill many tea cups. So nothing to be quilty about. A man got to do what a man got to do. Are u a man?

 

[sweetiepie]

Do you think that my actions and feelings are considered cheating

Son KNN my uncle been there KNN my uncle used to be 1 class below edison Chen kind and many suitors during his glamourous office work days KNN most of the interns and new joiner would be attracted to him and he will need to consider about what you considering here KNN the best way to know the answer is you need to exchange position with your gf and ask yourself would you mind if a male colleague and her do all the things you mentioned KNN in my uncle case his answer is no so he will ban them whenever they tried to get close to him KNN my uncle understand sometimes is not easy to control when it comes naturalee and next question you can ask yourself is what end leesult it will become then you will be able to handle it more appropriatelee KNN

 

[eatshitndie]

conclusion is sinkie office legshakers take too many useless makan breaks: breakfast break, pre lunch break, lunch break, post lunch break, tea break, smoke break, toilet breaks.

 

[sweetiepie]

conclusion is sinkie office legshakers take too many useless makan breaks: breakfast break, pre lunch break, lunch break, post lunch break, tea break, smoke break, toilet breaks.

KNN just to add my uncle also take pre toileting break and post toileting KNN at a leeferent timing as morning tea break and smoke break KNN

 

[OrhKiam]

do u still eat canned pork stew from China

 

[zhihau]

I sort of find her attractive. She does have a charming and alluring personality. She's also very cheerful and bubbly and she doesn't give me a black face like my current GF.

Habis, mampos! You’ve crossed the rubicon...

 

[eatshitndie]

KNN just to add my uncle also take pre toileting break and post toileting KNN at a leeferent timing as morning tea break and smoke break KNN

i forgot about quickie break.

 

[glockman]

KNN just to add my uncle also take pre toileting break and post toileting KNN at a leeferent timing as morning tea break and smoke break KNN

Goodie! Another smoker!

 

[glockman]

I sort of find her attractive. She does have a charming and alluring personality. She's also very cheerful and bubbly and she doesn't give me a black face like my current GF.

Habis, mampos! You’ve crossed the rubicon...

They say the grass is always greener on the other side. And yep, most often they are right!

 

[kaninabuchaojibye]

I would greatly appreciate your kind and serious advice

They say the grass is always greener on the other side. And yep, most often they are right!

i also agree
can eat don't waste
haaaa

 

[kaninabuchaojibye]

Then in the midst of our tea break, she suddenly took out her phone and asked if I mind taking a wefie together. I felt really weird why she wanted a wefie in a food court, but she just went ahead without my consent. I do not deny I am good looking, but this is all too weird and I cannot comprehend her wefie saga

rereading your sibei lawsor post again...saw this!
u die liao..this one is confirm blackmail
next time she will friend your gf on facebook and insta and post this pic to make u and yr gf problem
u tio trap liao