Are you in good terms with your parents and/or siblings?

[Stompiss]

I've been in a cold war with my (second) sister, mum and dad for 2 months already!!

I'm usually pretty okay with cold wars because I keep to myself; reach home and disappear into my own room. But just this year or two, I feel that I've opened up quite a bit, ie, start to have fun or just talk and laugh with them. Those were the times I really felt warmth.

Sigh.

My second sis is getting married and I'm supposed to be her jiemei. But because of the cold war, I haven't been talking to her. So I haven't been catching up with the details of her wedding and such, even the jiemeis' gown!

I don't know how to pretend to be okay on the day of her wedding. Should I take the initiative to patch up? Argh.

 

[cslewis1962]

Yes you should, there's billions of people on this planet. And fate have brought you 2 together as sisters ..... think about it.

 

[Narong Wongwan]

You think pinky close with his siblings?
Does this sis and brother got their eyes on the throne?
Or emperor and dowager already decided for them since birth?

 

[wendychan]

RFOL
www.yuffy.com/lawyer
you thread has made my day (so early in the morning some more)

 

[halsey02]

It is over, Jealousy ( mum or dad like you better or vice versa), over money ( inherited share, siblings loan), Pride ( brother drives a beemer, I am driving a Cherry)...we are rarely close with our siblings our parents...one or two siblings, one parent...it is a blessings that the entire lot are in good terms with one another (100%).

I am not close...

 

[DogVader]

Yes good terms.

 

[halsey02]

Yes good terms.

You are blessed!

 

[Kinana]

Please patch up asap, don't ever let it drag anymore.

 

[looneytan]

I've been in a cold war with my (second) sister, mum and dad

please PM Mr Perfect for his advice
But do so early as he is suffering from AIDS and may leave any time soon

 

[sickpuppy]

Hah don't worry u are not that bad. 1 of my brother in law is in cold war with the whole family. He got this crazy idea that the whole family is against him. 1 time during reunion lunch at my inlaws suddenly he stood up and walked to another brother inlaw and punch him and demanded why he say bad things behind his back. Best part was that brother inlaw that got wacked is staying overseas and only comes back once a year for NY reunion. Don't worry U all family brother sister and u they will still love u no matter wat.

 

[gotnojob]

Family is important so making up is good. Blood is always thicker than water and you can susually rely on blood to help when things go wrong. This wedding is a good chance for you 2 to make up so please do so.

 

[MBSSLUTS]

Always good for me.

 

[Sideswipe]

Yes you should, there's billions of people on this planet. And fate have brought you 2 together as sisters ..... think about it.

could be the undesirable affinities ( 逆缘 ), karma of the past life. you do need a long time to realize and accept it..

 

[Maximuz]

1 of my brother in law is in cold war with the whole family. He got this crazy idea that the whole family is against him. 1 time during reunion lunch at my inlaws suddenly he stood up and walked to another brother inlaw and punch him and demanded why he say bad things behind his back. Best part was that brother inlaw that got wacked is staying overseas and only comes back once a year for NY reunion.

Sounds like my very own brother who has schizophrenia. Sometimes he would think somebody from the NEXT BLOCK is badmouthing him and he would stand at the window looking for the offender. It was a monumental challenge living with a person like that in your home (he has a bad personality too - essentially, a bad person) and after many fights (with one involving blood, stitches, and the police), I guess illness or not, at the end of the day it is down to you to be a bigger man (woman) and just live with their faults.

A quiet home is a happy home