Any Samsters work in company with drinking culture, organize team bonding activities in ktv with hostesses? Gf/wife kpkb nonstop how to settle?

[metalrover]

GUY’S NEW COLLEAGUES BRING HIM TO “KTV WITH HOSTESSES” AS A FORM OF TEAM BONDING

How to (SIAM) Diu?

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Hi everyone, my boyfriend (26M) recently started working at a company that has a strong drinking culture and the night will progress to patronising a seedy Ktv with hostesses.

The company is male-dominated and these outings are sort of “team bonding”- expenses paid for by company.

I trust that he will not engage in the services of the hostesses, but I would definitely prefer if he doesn’t tag along all the time.

I understand that socialising and establishing valuable connections are important, and I’m not sure if him refusing to go Diu will reflect badly on him-

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would he miss out on opportunities, and are there actually ways to siam the night without consequences?

Any advice appreciated! For females with partners in this situation, how do u grow to accept it? Especially when there’s nth u can do and just trust that they will always do the right thing.

Netizens’ comments​

• My friend’s gf told us that she had similar concerns at the start. But after knowing that he’s too stingy to spend $ on hostesses she feels much more secure
• ooh, my brother was in such a company too for a while. I strongly believe that men with any morals just get densensitized, which also means if he can’t control himself then he’s not worth the effort. He will definitely miss out on opportunities but definitely the best is get a better job.
• stop assuming men have feelings when going to these places, to some it’s just exercise/work out at the gym
• Make him wear a chastity belt meh?
• uncomfortable then ask him change job. ‘Siam Diu for life, Siam Bu for wife’

 

[Scrooball (clone)]

The company is male-dominated and these outings are sort of “team bonding”- expenses paid for by company.

Lol... which company's budget so powerful? Team bonding at seedy KTV sia. If you believe this shit, I got a MLM product to show you.

 

[metalrover]

Lol... which company's budget so powerful? Team bonding at seedy KTV sia. If you believe this shit, I got a MLM product to show you.

I believe is got cheong ktv cultures in companies in the name of teambonding, but is ownself pay for ownself

 

[Scrooball (clone)]

I believe is got cheong ktv cultures in companies in the name of teambonding, but is ownself for ownself

At most is cover one bottle la. All the extra hanky panky stuff such as tips for hostesses are not covered by company for sure.

 

[metalrover]

At most is cover one bottle la. All the extra hanky panky stuff such as tips for hostesses are not covered by company for sure.

No go entertain at all not sporting, tio outcast.
Go already go back sure tio gan, how ah?

 

[A Singaporean]

If wife not happy ask her to go out and work and provide forcthe family.

 

[k1976]

Lol... which company's budget so powerful? Team bonding at seedy KTV sia. If you believe this shit, I got a MLM product to show you.

Wow，lobang debunked liao

Durian Shell Standby...

 

[k1976]

No go entertain at all not sporting, tio outcast.
Go already go back sure tio gan, how ah?

Change job to leecher...can go to entertain XMM during Sat afternoon Extra Cirrculirum Activities hour?

 

[k1976]

No go entertain at all not sporting, tio outcast.
Go already go back sure tio gan, how ah?

Owmlnself cheong ownself is better option

 

[metalrover]

Change job to leecher...can go to entertain XMM during Sat afternoon offpeak hour??

I scare eat rotan

 

[k1976]

I scare eat rotan

Find those 18yr old wan lah

And leemember to sign ECA constent form hoh

 

[laksaboy]

That's one big disadvantage of getting married.

Even the wholesome activities, guys, schoolmates or NS mates gatherings etc, are subject to the wife's scheduling (cannot clash with errand duty), imposed curfew timing (cannot stay out late beyond this time), or even if you're allowed to go at all ("I don't like it when you hang out with this particular guy").

Pussywhipped married men almost always hang out with other fellow pussywhipped married men, and the wives are included in those gatherings. Sad and pathetic.

 

[batman1]

That's one big disadvantage of getting married.

Even the wholesome activities, guys, schoolmates or NS mates gatherings etc, are subject to the wife's scheduling (cannot clash with errand duty), imposed curfew timing (cannot stay out late beyond this time), or even if you're allowed to go at all ("I don't like it when you hang out with this particular guy").

Pussywhipped married men almost always hang out with other fellow pussywhipped married men, and the wives are included in those gatherings. Sad and pathetic.

That 's why u have the usual family weekend BBQ gathering. U have to be present,u cannot escape although u don't like some family members. 555