23-year-old security guard feeling hopeless and suicidal...

[I_Hate_Pappies]

Why must he settle for such job... If he really love to guard something, he should sign on Police or Army... Salary higher and better career advancement. He is still young and physically fit...

"Firstly, I dare not face up to hardship like for example when I am faced with
a new job that is tough I would give up easily then second thing is I always
face problems no matter where I go".

 

[streetsmart73]

He needs a breakthru'. Come on Steven! Bring a couple of MIWs with you in your quest to end your life. Die a hero!

hi there


1. the hard truth sucks big time.
2. honest, such individual just cannot take the pressure.
3. life isn't a bed of roses, ever rosy & good smelling.
4. there are bound to be ups and downs.
5. dafter sheep in the making

 

[no_faith]

end of day, it is bullshit. this is guy is too free to cook up such story.

 

[chootchiew]

Too bad he did not have the chance to learn from you proper English about Advice vs Advise..that could be the first step for success :p

 

[Scrooball (clone)]

hi there


1. the hard truth sucks big time.
2. honest, such individual just cannot take the pressure.
3. life isn't a bed of roses, ever rosy & good smelling.
4. there are bound to be ups and downs.
5. dafter sheep in the making

hi there


1. the hard truth sucks big time for losers.
2. honest, such loser just cannot learn how to get the pleasure of work.
3. life can be a bed of roses, ever rosy & good smelling.
4. the ups and downs are within your control.
5. unlike dafter sheeps

 

[streetsmart73]

hi there


1. the hard truth sucks big time for losers.
2. honest, such loser just cannot learn how to get the pleasure of work.
3. life can be a bed of roses, ever rosy & good smelling.
4. the ups and downs are within your control.
5. unlike dafter sheeps

hi there


1. walau.
2. machiam seeing my double hoh

 

[tonychat]

Hi Sir

Im not too sure if you remember me.

My name is Steven

I have emailed you regarding my job as a security guard and the challenges I
faced.

I am currently facing more problems than before and have thought of suicide
as a way out.

I would like to share my story with you but is it ok if you dont publish
it?

If it needs to be published I’m ok just hope you can edit it thanks.

I am looking for online counselling with you so that you can help me out.

Here is my story:-

I have worked in this security company for more than 3 years

I believe they have underpaid me by $400 every month.

Most security companies nowadays offer at least $1700 to $1900 but all I am
getting is only $1550 – which is way below the standard pay.

I feel very lost in life as I am only 23 now – how can one be optimistic when
he is working as a security guard at such a young age?

Many of my friends have already succeeded in their career at 23.

I am intrested in upgrading myself but I am having problems knowing what I
want.

I like this course called hotel management but thinking about it makes me
feel sad.

Firstly it costs $15k for the whole course. And secondly when I graduate it
dosen’t mean I can get a job in there due to the foreigner overload in this
industry or any other industry for that matter.

Gilbert could you advice me on how do I succeed in life?

I have asked many people on how do I go about doing it but many of my friends
and so called job counsellors only ask me go get a course and work hard at
it.

Their talk is easy. As for me now I heard that I can be a Supervisor and
after that Security OE but I am currently having problems.

Firstly, I dare not face up to hardship like for example when I am faced with
a new job that is tough I would give up easily then second thing is I always
face problems no matter where I go.

I wish you can help me in person.

I remember you asked me to meet you last time which I cant due to so much
stress at work that I did not even have an off day for a month.

I feel suicidal right now. Do you offer counselling over the phone?

Regds,

Steven

hmmmm..... this type of behavior sounds similar..oh... now i remember... same as those sinkie losers in this forum.

I wonder why this human being is so strange and non of my frens behaves like that... i just remember i stay away from sinkies for a long time...

 

[Extremist]

An employed man seeking advice from an unemployed man?

 

[bryanlim1972]

outliers like this chap will grow in numbers and become the norm.

there are multiple failures leading to his current state of mind: parent(s), school, friends etc

not blaming the MOE, but they need to improve the system to reduce the incidence of outliers like him. imagine if he makes it to cisco and is given a gun...

 

[Boliao]

Why did Gilbert published his letters when the writer requested not to do so? If he is sincere in helping him, why is there no offer of advice?

The 23 year old guys should change job. It is easy to earn to more than $2000 a month if you work hard. Opportunities are there if you are hungry enough.

 

[Leongsam]

there are multiple failures leading to his current state of mind: parent(s), school, friends etc

Typical sinkie response... blaming everyone except the root cause of the problem which is the loser himself.

I determine my own state of mind and so does everyone else. Unless you're subjected to a forced lobotomy and walk around with electrodes in your brain, nobody can control how and what you think. It's entirely your own doing.

 

[enterprise2]

Gaining entry into this elite group still requires hard work and determination either at wooing the right people or by scoring straight "A"s. It's not an easy club to join. Lots of effort needs to be put in beforehand.

Errr...yeah rite!! U mean lots of bootlicking, hand shaking, blowjobbing...etc

 

[whoami]

I bet if steven is a Malay, u will have racists like Jamban and Buikia, adding more fuels to the fire. U will hear y such and such always like dat, typical mat, lazy, blah blah blah.....

 

[vincenttan]

An employed man seeking advice from an unemployed man?

Gilbert is a successful Event Organizer - 4,000 turn up at Speakers' Corner for population White Paper protest on February 16, 2013.

 

[Leongsam]

Errr...yeah rite!! U mean lots of bootlicking, hand shaking, blowjobbing...etc

If you think it's easy, why don't you give it a go.

 

[KuanTi01]

Why must he settle for such job... If he really love to guard something, he should sign on Police or Army... Salary higher and better career advancement. He is still young and physically fit...

Alternatively, he can join McDonalds or KFC; judging by their cheerful TV ads, it seems to be a good place to earn a livelihood.

 

[chupacabra]

Dead end job, dead end moron. Even teenagers can get better paid jobs.

 

[Scrooball (clone)]

Working in McDonald's will surely get u a higher pay if u work OT. Free meal included too.

 

[ray_of_hope]

He's 23. So, it makes little sense for someone to illustrate the story by using a pic of a man who looks like 53...

 

[soIsee]

Gilbert is a successful Event Organizer - 4,000 turn up at Speakers' Corner for population White Paper protest on February 16, 2013.

You mean 4000 goons, many unemployable like him came to listen to an unemployable con preaching how to market oneself to get employed?

Else he would tell these goons to pin the blame of their 'inability of securing a job' on the MIWs which he is also blaming them for his own predicament? LOL