Not handsome vs Bo Tat Chek

[Queen Seok Duk]

Which of the two remarks is more hurtful from the point of view of a man ?

Okay, I know there are a lot of handsome and educated guys in this forum, so you may not have come across a remark such as this. Now just imagine if you're not so handsome or not so educated, which of the two remarks do you think would hurt you more than the other ?

 

[silverfox@]

Which of the two remarks is more hurtful from the point of view of a man ?

Okay, I know there are a lot of handsome and educated guys in this forum, so you may not have come across a remark such as this. Now just imagine if you're not so handsome or not so educated, which of the two remarks do you think would hurt you more than the other ?

Bo Tat Chek

yan dao bo yan dao lies in the eyes of the beholder.:p

 

[Ramseth]

Bo Tat Chek

yan dao bo yan dao lies in the eyes of the beholder.:p

Education is also beholden to circumstance. For example, a Thai Chulalongkorn graduate or a Japanese Todai graduate who can't speak English well in USA may be considered less educated than a smooth talking salesman who just scraped past high school. Even within a same English speaking environment, an engineer would be relatively uneducated in a hospital and a doctor would be relatively uneducated in a court of law.

You are what you are, you look what you look and you know what you know. Be confident in yourself. Of course, you can improve your looks with grooming and your education by learning. That's good, but at any point in time through the journey, don't let what others say put you down.

 

[ivebert]

Which of the two remarks is more hurtful from the point of view of a man ?

Okay, I know there are a lot of handsome and educated guys in this forum, so you may not have come across a remark such as this. Now just imagine if you're not so handsome or not so educated, which of the two remarks do you think would hurt you more than the other ?

Obviously this sentence tells us that you are UGLY and UNEDUCATED :oIo:

Fortunately for you, we don't expect much of an ex-convict like you! :oIo:

 

[Queen Seok Duk]

Bo Tat Chek

yan dao bo yan dao lies in the eyes of the beholder.:p

I think to imply that a person is not handsome is not an insult. But to imply that he is not educated comes across as you despise him.

But if we switch the question around. Which of the two praises would you prefer ? That you're handsome or you're educated ?

 

[Cruxx]

My educational achievement (or lack of it) isn't commensurate to my wealth. No, I won't be offended or embarrassed if someone is to say that I bo tat chek. At the end of the day, it's the number of zeros in your private banking account in the Isle of Man that matters.

 

[silverfox@]

I think to imply that a person is not handsome is not an insult. But to imply that he is not educated comes across as you despise him.

But if we switch the question around. Which of the two praises would you prefer ? That you're handsome or you're educated ?

every time i go karaoke, nightclub, all the girls say i very handsome. if i give them tips, they can even call me lao gong. I know its not real. The girls will say nice words, you don't expect them to swear at you calling you names in front of you if you are giving them money.

You give me money, I also can say you handsome.

But for someone to say I am educated, I think that is hard, because I am not educated leh. I not doctor, not study law also.

I guessed you know my answer. If you don't know means you not educated enough. :p

 

[bodycells]

You are what you are, you look what you look and you know what you know. Be confident in yourself. Of course, you can improve your looks with grooming and your education by learning. That's good, but at any point in time through the journey, don't let what others say put you down.

Yes, grooming improve looks and learning improves education.

Avoiding sinkies and getting out of SG improve Unsinkification.

 

[Muthukali]

At the end of the day, it's the number of zeros in your private banking account in the Isle of Man that matters.

I totally agreed to that. Its the digit that really matters end of the day.

 

[drifter]

no money no honey

 

[Queen Seok Duk]

This thread is slowing turning into a thread about whether you should feel hurt or should not feel hurt by remarks that you're not handsome or you're not educated.

No, that is NOT the topic of this thread.

Whether wealth is more important is completely outside the equation, at least for the purpose of this thread. It may be true, but it's not the purpose of this thread.

It's all about which of the two remarks will hurt you more than the other. Those who are immune to such remarks, please exercise your imagination.

 

[drifter]

what about ...." you are so poor " ..... ? does it hurt anyone ?

 

[Muthukali]

This thread is slowing turning into a thread about whether you should feel hurt or should not feel hurt by remarks that you're not handsome or you're not educated.

No, that is NOT the topic of this thread.

Whether wealth is more important is completely outside the equation, at least for the purpose of this thread. It may be true, but it's not the purpose of this thread.

It's all about which of the two remarks will hurt you more than the other. Those who are immune to such remarks, please exercise your imagination.

ok la ok la... not handsome hurts the most. Cos alot of thing is using physical to make money hor.... Think about it.........

 

[hotbot]

I will feel more offended if someone says that i bo tak chek. My looks are ok, slightly above average. But just dun know why currently, the woman that I like doesn't like me. My confidence a bit shaken. She comes from a rich family, that's maybe why i thought to myself.:o

When I was younger, the four women in my life, I never once got rejected. I may be plump but still can see my past masculine outline...heeheee...:o

Which of the two remarks is more hurtful from the point of view of a man ?

Okay, I know there are a lot of handsome and educated guys in this forum, so you may not have come across a remark such as this. Now just imagine if you're not so handsome or not so educated, which of the two remarks do you think would hurt you more than the other ?

 

[Ramseth]

Whether wealth is more important is completely outside the equation, at least for the purpose of this thread. It may be true, but it's not the purpose of this thread.

It's all about which of the two remarks will hurt you more than the other. Those who are immune to such remarks, please exercise your imagination.

Yes, wealthy people can also be insulted and hurt by remarks of them being ugly or uneducated. As to which is more hurtful, I think there's no absolute determinant. It depends on how the person values beauty and education personally, which of course varies from person to person.

 

[drifter]

ok la ok la... not handsome hurts the most. Cos alot of thing is using physical to make money hor.... Think about it.........

alot of singaporean also thinking bo tat chek cannot make money .....end of the day ...it still comes back to money ...

 

[hotbot]

I remember that when i was a teenager,looks are more important. :o

Nowadays, in the real world, being knowledgeable is unbeatable.

Yes, wealthy people can also be insulted and hurt by remarks of them being ugly or uneducated. As to which is more hurtful, I think there's no absolute determinant. It depends on how the person values beauty and education personally, which of course varies from person to person.

 

[Sideswipe]

think "not handsome or ugly" don't hurt once you get past young adult age. ( after 35 yrs old )
"not educated" stay with you throughout your life. some peoples are bothered by their "lack of education".

 

[Muthukali]

alot of singaporean also thinking bo tat chek cannot make money .....end of the day ...it still comes back to money ...

bo tak chey can upgrade everynow and then. its ur determination. of cos skool fees oso need money right, so must handsome first, make money then upgrade in your studies....

 

[Muthukali]

Yes, wealthy people can also be insulted and hurt by remarks of them being ugly or uneducated. As to which is more hurtful, I think there's no absolute determinant. It depends on how the person values beauty and education personally, which of course varies from person to person.

Dey, so are u handsome or bo tak chek one?