My dad just passed away

[jw5]

The words were identical!

The guy in this forum could have copied from the guy in 3in1 forum.
Just changed mum to dad.

 

[KuanTi01]

The guy in this forum could have copied from the guy in 3in1 forum.
Just changed mum to dad.

What is the world coming to? Let's hope it is not a sick joke as most seem to believe. Fancy bluffing about such a thing as a bereavement in the family!

 

[QXD]

Wow, lookie here, he's "killed" his Dad before and now resurrected him to grieve for mummy dearest.

My mother, the late Madam Leong Ah Moy, a housewife aged 63, died in Tan Tock Seng Hospital ICU on 10 Oct 2012 9.04am. Today is her 28th days. She was found to have lymphoma with a 10cm mass in her stomach and never has a chance to be treated for her lymphoma. She walked in to the hospital and left this world within three weeks. I, her elder son, were the only person around, and the only family member to witness her unwilling demised. I was the only one who called up my family members to come immediately. All these while, maybe the doctors were very optimistic of my mother conditions. An hour before her death, her eyes were wide opened. CPR was only performed when I informed the doctors white foam was forming in my mother’s mouth. The most unforgettable event was when my father arrived, the ICU head finally appeared and told us to have a last look at my mother. For the first time in 38 years of my life, I witness blood throwing out of my mother mouth continuously when CPR was performed by a nurse. All these while, my mother eyes cannot be closed until the undertaker did something and dressed her up.


It takes two admissions, one on 28 Aug 2012 through A&E and the last one on 24 Sep 2012 through the private heart specialist clinic of Tan Tock Seng Hospital for a lymphoma of 10 cm to be discovered. But my mom was diagnosed with SLE for more than 10 years and was treated at Tan Tock Seng Hospital with a 3 monthly blood test performed. The doctor deemed the result was good.

My parents are simple people with little education. But they endured hardship to bring the five of us up. When my mom stomach bloated up my dad without fail will apply oilment to her stomach, hoping to remove the “air”. I can’t get rid of such scenes and my mom death state from my mind. My father till now cannot have a proper sleep. Sorry for those who told me to let go. I simply can’t. Tan Tock Seng Hospital has to give my family an answer fast. What the use of all these follow up when a 10 cm mass can be left undetected. Is it because my mother was a B2 class patient?

 

[Alamaking]

Wah, Mr Perfect life so cham ah?

 

[palden]

4 years ago, SGH told us my dad got less than a year. Few months ago they say less than 3 months. Well dogters are also tan chia tan chia. Just like any tech attending to a fault. Some good ones provide the right remedy. Majority jut waiting for 5 o'clock. Just that their pay is higher and better educated doesn't mean they are always right.

You still got to make your own decision in life. Do research on the net and among friends. Find a possible solution. Most dogtor doesn't give a dam whether you live or die. And that is the hard truth.

 

[gotnojob]

Mr Perfect's life not so perfect.

 

[Narong Wongwan]

Mr Perfect play until so big....to disrupt this forum he is willing to curse his own parents....salute him and congrats to his parents for such an unfilial son

 

[cunnilaubu]

Mr Perfect play until so big....to disrupt this forum he is willing to curse his own parents....salute him and congrats to his parents for such an unfilial son

Bro, maybe he has two fathers?

 

[blur sotong]

Wow, lookie here, he's "killed" his Dad before and now resurrected him to grieve for mummy dearest.

Bro QXD, you have good CSI skill. Able to dig up a 2010 thread and highlight the discrepancy.

Thanks for the sharing. :p