Redditer: Married, involved in church and an Affair

[Nut]

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Married, involved in church and an Affair​

‍Question‍

I have been mostly happily married for 25+ years, have 3 great kids, and a good life. However sex and intimacy have pretty much left the building. We are very involved in church, Christians, but I broke from our vows and my beliefs and had an affair that lasted several years. I felt guilt the entire time, due to my marriage and my beliefs, but that didn’t deter me. Now I go to church and look around and wonder how many other “perfect” couples are going through the same thing. I also wonder if the men there are looking at my wife, if she’s looking at other men, and if other women are checking out other men. Are a lot of married Christians out there struggling for intimacy, sex and companionship?

 

[cowbellc]

Be fruitful and multiply
Genesis 1:28

 

[duluxe]

@True Believer is a big sour grape, knowing and reading other men success with affairs through church activities but his own success is still zero.

 

[Nut]

ACS boy Tan Chuan Jin and his wife was a perfect church going couple until he met the irresistible Cheng Li Hui.

 

[syed putra]

ACS boy Tan Chuan Jin and his wife was a perfect church going couple until he met the irresistible Cheng Li Hui.

Affairs are what attract couples to churches.
And sex for those who are singles. But you have to endure hours of Bible classes.

 

[duluxe]

Affairs are what attract couples to churches.
And sex for those who are singles. But you have to endure hours of Bible classes.

Hey @True Believer , is Syed Putra telling the truth?

 

[WangChuk]

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Married, involved in church and an Affair​

‍Question‍

I have been mostly happily married for 25+ years, have 3 great kids, and a good life. However sex and intimacy have pretty much left the building. We are very involved in church, Christians, but I broke from our vows and my beliefs and had an affair that lasted several years. I felt guilt the entire time, due to my marriage and my beliefs, but that didn’t deter me. Now I go to church and look around and wonder how many other “perfect” couples are going through the same thing. I also wonder if the men there are looking at my wife, if she’s looking at other men, and if other women are checking out other men. Are a lot of married Christians out there struggling for intimacy, sex and companionship?

simple lah ... organize more exchange wife sessions with different couples lah ... like that all forgive forgive and happy happy under the same blessings ... shiok!

 

[VanDick]

So Christianity actually makes its followers more horny?

 

[syed putra]

So Christianity actually makes its followers more horny?

The name of the game is to multiply.

 

[True Believer]

Affairs are what attract couples to churches. And sex for those who are singles. But you have to endure hours of Bible classes.

Syed, does incest happen from interactions at the mosque or do you just keep it all within the family?

 

[syed putra]

Syed, does incest happen from interactions at the mosque or do you just keep it all within the family?

That one you must ask the Mostly chinese prostitute where they learned their skills. Was it home schooling?

 

[True Believer]

That one you must ask the Mostly chinese prostitute where they learned their skills. Was it home schooling?

Your people have it in them to take part in a game the whole family can play.