Redditer: As a 21F who lived an evergreen life. I have no clue about the dating scene.

[Flibbertigibbet]

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As a 21F who lived an evergreen life. I have no clue about the dating scene.​

Hear me out

Turning 21 this October.

I have been single all my life, never been in a romantic relationship/dated anyone. Never kissed or did any couple related activities with the opposite gender. Never had teenager love before, albeit crushes.

Don’t get me wrong. I crave intimacy and having a significant other(ofc there is perfectly nothing wrong with being single!). I was forbidden to date anyone in Pri/sec school and seldom explore dating apps. I was only on LeoMatch.

Furthermore, I sort of only got my life together at the grown age of 21??? Back when I was 13-18, I was painfully shy and did not have my own identity and voice. I recently started to indulge in self-care, such as amplifying my skincare routine, oral care etc. I definitely am more mature now.

I had a pastsomewhere when I was 17-18. That made me believe I was never good enough for anyone and I turned to self-isolation. [I got out of that dark place but scars don’t fade easily]. Hence if I got a boyfriend, he must accept my past. I am still schooling full-time and working part-time, I just want to ensure I am financially and mentally stable when I do date someone.

Then there is the part where I am scared I have not much to provide. I don’t think I am that pretty in looks, not the smartest in academics and not that romantic. I rather date someone at the same level as me and we will bring each other up.

 

[jurongkechil]

Got puck puck puck sound?

 

[bigozt]

what a narrow minded self absorbed bitch.

 

[Sustanon]

"I had a past somewhere when I was 17-18. That made me believe I was never good enough for anyone and I turned to self-isolation. [I got out of that dark place but scars don’t fade easily]. Hence if I got a boyfriend, he must accept my past. I am still schooling full-time and working part-time, I just want to ensure I am financially and mentally stable when I do date someone."

Tio raped and creampied by a gang of bagalas??? If so, this type of girl is alot of mental trouble one.... best stay far far away... so many other choices... no need waste time with her and cause yourself unnecessary mental anguish down the road...

 

[WangChuk]

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As a 21F who lived an evergreen life. I have no clue about the dating scene.​

Hear me out

Turning 21 this October.

I have been single all my life, never been in a romantic relationship/dated anyone. Never kissed or did any couple related activities with the opposite gender. Never had teenager love before, albeit crushes.

Don’t get me wrong. I crave intimacy and having a significant other(ofc there is perfectly nothing wrong with being single!). I was forbidden to date anyone in Pri/sec school and seldom explore dating apps. I was only on LeoMatch.

Furthermore, I sort of only got my life together at the grown age of 21??? Back when I was 13-18, I was painfully shy and did not have my own identity and voice. I recently started to indulge in self-care, such as amplifying my skincare routine, oral care etc. I definitely am more mature now.

I had a pastsomewhere when I was 17-18. That made me believe I was never good enough for anyone and I turned to self-isolation. [I got out of that dark place but scars don’t fade easily]. Hence if I got a boyfriend, he must accept my past. I am still schooling full-time and working part-time, I just want to ensure I am financially and mentally stable when I do date someone.

Then there is the part where I am scared I have not much to provide. I don’t think I am that pretty in looks, not the smartest in academics and not that romantic. I rather date someone at the same level as me and we will bring each other up.

wow .... confirm bergin siah ... 21yo liao ... can immediately ROM her and start let her experience girl become woman and MILF .....

 

[glockman]

Confirm she's a mental case. Stay away!!