dai yi long money is blood money...2 kids have to be scarified because of this..
gayboy , borrow money from " ah long " is ok as long as you can return the money to them . i have a friend who borrow money from " ah long" because of some business problem . he did return all money to that "ah long " . until now , he and the "ah long " become good friend ( every chinese new year until now , he still receive gift hamper from "them " ) .
always remember , those ah long are doing " business " , even you go bank borrow money , bank also charge you interest rate . if you dont pay up , bank will still sue you . there are no such thing as free lunch in this world . you think " ah long " wants your life ? they just want thier money to be return . both party agreed at the interest rate ..nobody forcing anyone to borrow money from them ...
moral of the story , rule of the game , if you cant pay , dont borrow .