I think it's safe to say that 
@ginfreely truly enjoys talking to 
men (both online and in real life), most probably because she used to enjoy talking 
a lot to her late father, who probably 
also enjoyed talking to her.
But at the same time, she does 
not want anybody (whether men or women) to consider her to be some kind of 
promiscuous or potentially promiscuous woman; which is why whenever anyone calls her a "slut" or "whore" or "mistress" or any other similar word, she becomes 
humiliated.
If she simply 
stops talking to 
men, she would 
suffer because that is one of her 
main earthly pleasures she enjoys.
Therefore (and unfortunately for her many victims), 
instead of simply ignoring those insults (
if she's a truly innocent virgin), she would 
rather keep attacking her enemies 
incessantly (while insisting that she's a "virgin" with 
obviously zero proof), in order to 
save her "face" and also to 
overcome/prevent her suffering whenever she 
stops talking to 
men.
Her 
incessant attacks would also include 
lies and nonsense, which would only 
provoke her enemies to attack her 
even more!
Finally, she knows that she's an 
unmarried 
middle-aged woman with 
no children, so she 
can't defend herself by saying that she 
has children, in order to say that there's 
nothing wrong for her to have 
lost her virginity.
This is probably why she keeps declaring that she's a "virgin", so as to 
try to save her "face" by 
stopping/preventing other people from thinking that 
because she has no children and no husband, she 
must have had 
non-marital sex 
several times with 
at least one or two men after her marriage with her ex-husband ended, 
whenever she felt very horny!