Man found out son not his after 6 years.

[jubilee1919]

Forget about the emotions. It is still paternity fraud - a crime.

Raising a kid requires lots of money. Imagine yourself getting constantly robbed for six years. Would you like it?

Everything could have been prevented with a mandatory paternity test at childbirth. It is cheap and easy to do, no more difficult than a blood test. Why not do it?

It's easy to say this if you have never been a father. I am a father and I know how difficult it is to reject a kid you thought was yours all along. The man's anger is with the mother but it is no fault of the child.

 

[GreenHat]

Even not his blood it's 6 years sure got feelings. Man no need do such petty stuff. Keep a pet for 6 years also will have feelings.

But that happens to be a green hat he has been wearing for so long. Not to mention the wedding expenses.

 

[drifter]

It's easy to say this if you have never been a father. I am a father and I know how difficult it is to reject a kid you thought was yours all along. The man's anger is with the mother but it is no fault of the child.

Good post ..

 

[jubilee1919]

Good post ..

Thanks bro. Even a pet we looked after for many years we will be very upset if it died. It is much much worse if it is a kid we love with all our heart thinking it is our child.

 

[drifter]

Thanks bro. Even a pet we looked after for many years we will be very upset if it died. It is much much worse if it is a kid we love with all our heart thinking it is our child.

That's right bro ... Even our pets die we also feel sad .. And we are talking about human life here . Seriously I don't understand how these ppl think .

 

[Fishypie]

But that happens to be a green hat he has been wearing for so long. Not to mention the wedding expenses.

Hey GreenHat; do i know you from somewhere ?..~..

 

[looneytan]

Not to mention the wedding expenses.

Oii! $50 oni la if you do at void deck
( according to Amy )

 

[shctaw]

6 years lucky Liao.

大风 dad only know that on 大风 wedding day.

If you watch 夜市人生

 

[Goldeneye]

It's easy to say this if you have never been a father. I am a father and I know how difficult it is to reject a kid you thought was yours all along. The man's anger is with the mother but it is no fault of the child.

True but as some outsider, you think every time you look at the kid it reminds you of the betrayal... you want to kill, But strangely, father's with green hat think different... Read about Blunkett/Quinn affair

 

[jubilee1919]

True but as some outsider, you think every time you look at the kid it reminds you of the betrayal... you want to kill, But strangely, father's with green hat think different... Read about Blunkett/Quinn affair

It depends on the man and his character. Not everyone will hold my view but I believe most men will feel responsible to take care of the child by paying for it's upkeep. Nowadays we men should not expect the women we marry to be a virgin unlike those days of old. When you have already bonded with a child, that bond is hard to break, believe me.

 

[shOUTloud]

@jubilee1919. I agree with you cos I am also a parent. But there will be deep seated anger with the mom. The issue here is whether the man can continue to love the child, especially as the child grows up and becomes more naughty and rebellious.

 

[shOUTloud]

What Singapore needs is a paternity test tv show.

Learn from Maury.

[video=youtube;7d9wkxHT-Yo]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7d9wkxHT-Yo[/video]

This is a damn cheebye show with cheebye people in the audience and the host. I cannot believe I used to enjoy trashes like the Jerry Springer show. I really feel sorry for the man and the boy.

 

[Kermit]

Hey GreenHat; do i know you from somewhere ?..~..

I don't think so.

 

[drifter]

This is a damn cheebye show with cheebye people in the audience and the host. I cannot believe I used to enjoy trashes like the Jerry Springer show. I really feel sorry for the man and the boy.

The sad truth is ppl love to see another ppl in pain and the media knows it and make full use of it at the expenses of others .

 

[drifter]

@jubilee1919. I agree with you cos I am also a parent. But there will be deep seated anger with the mom. The issue here is whether the man can continue to love the child, especially as the child grows up and becomes more naughty and rebellious.

If that man did not love that kid then he should not be fighting for custody for the kid . Just give it to the mother .

 

[Narong Wongwan]

If that man did not love that kid then he should not be fighting for custody for the kid . Just give it to the mother .

In many countries the hubby got no case to fight for custody.
Regardless how he can prove he is a model dad and the wife is bad mother....DNA supersedes in cases like these.