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being sent letter, waiting to be sued

wendychan

Alfrescian (InfP)
Generous Asset



Dear Wendychan,

The Courts do NOT grant INJUNCTIONS that easily. It has to go through the points raised and rebutted in the affidavits.

You need not worry at all.

This is a CIVIL suit.

NO ONE HAS THE POWER TO SEND YOU TO JAIL.

Our Judges are Fair.

You will get JUSTICE.


going by recent cases, im not so sure about getting justice
and i did sign the agreement which was flawed to begin with and i was in a tight, desperate corner
but there will probably be no mercy
i will be painted as a greedy bitch, which if you know me is quite laughable, which goes back to my point re justice
 
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BuiKia

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Generous Asset
Sound like a problem started by a man and complicated by women.

Good plot for the coming Chinese drama....
 

jiakhongleow

Alfrescian
Loyal
Yes, only police case can send you to jail. Police cannot collect court costs and the PP lawyer is paid by tax payers money.

But breaching the injunction is police case. Her adversary is using injuction as a double-edged sword to turn it into a police case to send her to jail. Be wary. Using injunction is like laying mine bombs for her to step on. Once breached she goes to jail.

Best thing for her is to take her mother to court, the KP, and her other siblings will have to think twice of putting her on the witness stand and if she lied underoath is committing crime of Perjury (Sec 3 of the Crime Act). Put the duress back to the other siblings. Their lawyer have to think twice of putting an old lady for committing crime of perjury and loses his practice license if he proceed. Lawyers will be forewarn by the court anyway.

Go for the jugular of the lawyer too. These crooks are often breaching their code of practice and conduct and OB markers as a trained lawyer. Time to tell these crooks to behave well and not put adversaries under duress. Can get back at the lawyers for fraudulent misrepresentation of their case, report them to tax office for tax purposes if they overcharge. End of the day they are in business and must pay tax too like anyone else.

Complaint them to AG office for fraud, misleading, duty of care and OB markers and give them load of shits and busy facing their own fraudulent business dealing with their clients.

It is like taking a paid bus ride to the city. The bus driver is a license holder to drive a big trasnsport vehicle to carry >100 passengers on brhalf of the bus owner. He has to drive with duty of care and trained on his role as a bus driver and only take specific innstruction from the owner and the authority. If he breached his role he will have his licence rovked by the authority. He will be suspended and a bad track record on his name.





Dear Wendychan,

The Courts do NOT grant INJUNCTIONS that easily. It has to go through the points raised and rebutted in the affidavits.

You need not worry at all.

This is a CIVIL suit.

NO ONE HAS THE POWER TO SEND YOU TO JAIL.

Our Judges are Fair.

You will get JUSTICE.
 

hamilton

New Member
hi wendy
i feel for your plight and may i suggest the following, for starters...

1. stop returning any more money that you have received from them

2. ignore the 'we are suing' letters (i presume they are not from a lawyer?)

3. tell them to stop harassing you and give you your due inheritance or YOU will be suing them!

do not underestimate the power of the truth..

- you are definitely your father's daughter
- you have lived in the said house for xxx years
- the relationship you have had over that period has been one of a familial member,
and i'm sure a host of other evidence that you were very much a part of the family, illegitimate or not

like you said, you have 'nothing' to lose, but they have everything to lose

do not let yourself be intimidated and bullied and you'll be surprised what a little offense on your part, coupled with a large dose of truth will do

even the rich and powerful cannot distort the truth...

contact a lawyer and discuss your options. subhas annandan perhaps.

good luck!
 

hamilton

New Member
hi wendy

i sympathize with your plight, and i suggest the following

- stop paying them back what you 'owe'

- ignore their threats to sue and communicate your intention to sue THEM instead for what is rightfully yours

- speak to a lawyer, someone like subhas annandan perhaps

you have the truth on your side and that beats a host of 'powerful' people trying to fabricate something

you are definitely your father's daughter

you have lived in that house for xxx years

you have proof of familial ties with these people that spans years, illegitimate though you may be

they have much more to lose, like you said, and i wager its more in their interest to have this matter resolved
with the minimal 'fanfare', especially when they are clearly on the weaker foot to begin with

be strong and do not be intimidated. take the offensive and i'm sure you'll see a softening in their current stance which is,
as far as i can see, to intimidate and bully!

good luck wendy!
 

hamilton

New Member
they only write to me thru their lawyer. so far, every time lawyer letter come, all no good news

even so, just ignore it, and deal with the 'suit' if and when it comes..

like i said, its more than likely just an intimidation tactic

what can they possibly get out of suing you?? at most a cease and desist order on your talking about this in a public forum,
and a return of the monies already given you, which you are agreeable to return anyway...

in the meantime, do not return anything more and consult a lawyer to assess your own options
ESP your legal rights to your inheritance and send them a letter of your intent to sue instead!
 

wendychan

Alfrescian (InfP)
Generous Asset
so my lawyer has received Originating Summons No. 692 of 2012/X

hearing on 23 August 2012 at 10:00 a.m. and the Court has directed parties to attend a Pre-Trial Conference hearing on 14 August 2012 at 9:00 a.m.
 

scroobal

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Loyal
Remember this

- they have more to lose than you, unless you made false claims
- accepting money as part of the eviction and accepting as final payment can be treated as done under duress. You do not have to return the money. You should claim duress and demand your rightful share.
- a gag order between private parties is worthless if done under duress.

Ask them thru your lawyers for a final fair sum to make this go away and you are prepared to keep things confidential bound by the court.

If you continue to play the victim in this manner, you will end up the victim. Your lawyer unless he is good will also end up with the same persona.

Wish you all the best.

so my lawyer has received Originating Summons No. 692 of 2012/X

hearing on 23 August 2012 at 10:00 a.m. and the Court has directed parties to attend a Pre-Trial Conference hearing on 14 August 2012 at 9:00 a.m.
 

wendychan

Alfrescian (InfP)
Generous Asset
Remember this



Ask them thru your lawyers for a final fair sum to make this go away and you are prepared to keep things confidential bound by the court.

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defiantely will use that against me. already i never demanded money in the first place,but they are prepared to swear that i did, and i know this is the story they have been telling..
 

Boliao

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defiantely will use that against me. already i never demanded money in the first place,but they are prepared to swear that i did, and i know this is the story they have been telling..

You have my sympathy and I can understand what you're going through. I had the same problem a couple of years ago. In laws are well connected with PAP. They had the upper hand in every round and simply enjoy seeing me force into every corner they want me it. Judge blatantly sided even as they try to bury me, ignoring judge's direction several times.

My personal view is that no matter how much truth you have, the judge is only going to know your case in that few hours and from the lawyers presentation; and they will paint you in the worst possible manner no matter the truth. In the end, the law will side with the one who has more money and connection.

I hate to say this but unlikely for you to win even though I wished badly that you would. I had all the evidence and paper proof but still lost. No money to appeal. So had to swallow my pride and anger with the bullet. Justice on exist in movies (and sometimes not even so).
 

darthboy

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Actually, it doesn't matter whether you did or did not sign any Agreement.

The lawyers can just make up a fake one.

The judges don't really care. They are (not WERE) lawyers too.
 

darthboy

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defiantely will use that against me. already i never demanded money in the first place,but they are prepared to swear that i did, and i know this is the story they have been telling..

The facts do not really matter. Both sides are simply making stuff up.

Ever seen a judge amending the documents? (he's not supposed to)

A 400+ year old book called the Pharisees and scribes hypocrites.
 
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