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so in sg, it's an ego issue? so much so that a cheap 3rd party needs to be hired from a poor village a few thousand miles away to toil for everyone, and everyone can bark egoistic and sadistic orders to the poor maid, including kids? unbelievable.
I think that you are in cali without a maid commenting on maids in singapore with this kind of comments, is really bullshit crap from you. I have had maids since I was borned, and I guarantee you we weren't top 20% household or rich or anything like that. Both my parents work, especially my father who worked long hours. The maid helped with alot, and was supervised by my grandmother. SHe was like family to us, and she stayed with us for over 10 years. Not everyone barked egoistic and sadistic orders to maids, so don't be an asshole with these kinds of comments. AFter my first maid retired, we had many maids after her. SOme stole from us, some were great, some were bad. That's life. People who mistreat their maids, and from what I can see from my friends who also have maids, are a minority. If you are entrusting your most precious possessions to your maid (i.e. your children), you will be an idiot to abuse a maid into hating you. But if you don't have a maid, you will not understand any of this. I suggest you cease and desist your posts. Theyare akin to a virgin commenting on various sexual positions.
P.S. By the way, as kids, we address our maids as "aunty" or "older sister". This is a requirement of our parents. We do not raise our voice to them, its the same as raising our voice to our parents. If we are caught, whacking is the penalty. I don't know about other families treatments of their maids, nor do I care. I do care that you take a few examples, and paint everyone with the same brush.
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