Character flaws can be inborn.
I have nothing against people who want to be stubborn on their views. Just make sure you can hold your ground. If your views come from emotions, grudges and sour grapes, chances that these views can hold their grounds is lower.
first and foremost, what are grudges? why should there be to ve grudges in the beginning? why do many allow anger to take control over them for a long time? what is there to stand to gain ?
are my flamers or stalkers of my li'l brother leetahsar happier when they resort into nasty behaviour? or do they prove themselves as cowards and losers with little or no life?
u see, even highly educated, or even always bragging about motherly love, people who depict "righteousness", fighting for the less fortunate, the poor, the needies....etc, there is just one simple question to ask themselves:
are u happy? are u happier after doing all those "great glorious deeds"? if they are, good for them. if they are not, why are they still doing it?
i ve refrained to post here as much as i could but the recent thread about ramseth's demise indirectly channels more anger towards ah seng who i realise is grievously being wronged and misunderstood by so many.
please know the ah seng personally first before u create self-anger against him. do not allow yourself to be manipulated by his foes - the lowlife and the nolife cowards.
if u want to direct your anger at my li'l brother leetahsar, he's ok. he has high tolerance. he's a goon!! he's immuned to all your nonsense. LOL!! but then again, ask yourself this question:
how much do u know the man to resort to such anger and cowardice? if u r happier doing that than happy when u do not, by all means, continue.
be happy! that's more important and sadhu, sadhu,sadhu to all..... _/\_