Re: Almost Robbed in JB
Haha after 2.5 years here... i can confirm it is safe if you follow all the safety rules and stay alert... but the moment you flout any of the safety rules you face a very high risk. In my case, a year back we forgot and left a bag at the backseat and got our back window smashed. This time they actually plan this robbery, so i might have made them think i have money... My old car which i used for a year while staying in JB was a soft-top but it never attracted any attention.
Appalled by the incident and applaud your courage and stubborn spirit! Very sorry you both had to endure such a bad experience.
Much as we would like to live "freely" i.e. to dress, drive and do as we please all the time, it is unwise in Johor [and not smart in Singapore either].
I cannot find anyone or any site that gives the final word on how best to react in a situation like this one: fight and risk serious injury, or give in and take the risk of gratuitous violence anyway. And you were constrained by consideration for your wife's safety. It is also probable that every situation is different, so a definitive answer may not be possible.
Vigilance without paranoia; nothing to give the impression that there is anything worth stealing; no handbag, attractive box or parcel visible and definitely not on your lap; park in an area with people and close to the destination - preferably with your vehicle in sight, front and back; Look Alert - casual and relaxed makes an easier target; get in and out quickly enough and lock the doors immediately using the alarm [no excuses that the alarm is not working]. There are many other suggestions eg which weapon to have handy and a really loud alarm to set off.
So right about rehearsing what you will do
in case of a confrontation or attack. I seriously mean you should practise what your series of actions would be. Include your wife in all this - she sounds like a properly
garang person.