Brother,I am sorry that I see the invisible hands at work,so it is not a case of old widow vs Wendy, it may be hard to imagine but sure you know the power of our invisible hands.
very true! how many of you really understand that i suffer under these invisible hands?:(
when i relate my story last time, some of you still call me sick. you will never understand...:*:
i very roughly know how wendy feels, i am trying to help her by not letting her go thru what i experience before, that's a little what a friend can do!:*:
True story:
years ago, i went to HSR recruitment at Toa Payoh. the director( i dun know him at all) start insinuating awful things, apparently directing at me. initially, i thought i was sensitive. then, after a few times and he mentioned he was previously from the army, immediately i know, my ex-CO and his officers playing bastard behind my back. from then on, i always tell my friends not to go to HSR for their property transaction. :p