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The Entrapment of the Modern Society

ikanbilis

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You buy a home. You take a loan. You are in debt.

When in debt, you need money to service your loan. This is done by selling your time and life. That's opportunity cost.

In this modern society we live in, we all have to sell our time and life when we were starting out to own our first home (unless you are born into a wealthy family).

However, if you choose to buy a second or third home or a car via more loans, then you are asking for trouble.

It means you cannot stop working to attend to what is important in your life, including your family, your interests and/or passion or what you always wanted to do, but haven't had the time to get it done.

You will end up entrapped in this debt servicing modern society, and will be continuously selling your physical health (eg. obesity), mental health (eg. stress) and ultimately your soul.

And when your physical time is up in Planet Earth, it's too late.

You can't bring what you owned to afterlife (if any). You have missed the opportunity to love your family, you failed to pursue your interests and/or passion. You did not do what you have always wanted to do.

The opportunity cost of an unfulfilled passion is not only the missed passion, but also the passions that the missed passion was meant to sow and inspire.
 
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kaninabuchaojibye

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You buy a home. You take a loan. You are in debt.

When in debt, you need money to service your loan. This is done by selling your time and life. That's opportunity cost.

In this modern society we live in, we all have to sell our time and life when we were starting out to own our first home (unless you are born into a wealthy family).

However, if you choose to buy a second or third home or a car via more loans, then you are asking for trouble.

It means you cannot stop working to attend to what is important in your life, including your family, your interests and/or passion or what you always wanted to do, but haven't had the time to get it done.

You will end up entrapped in this debt servicing modern society, and will be continuously selling your physical health (eg. obesity), mental health (eg. stress) and ultimately your soul.

And when your physical time is up in Planet Earth, it's too late.

You can't bring what you owned to afterlife (if any). You have missed the opportunity to love your family, you failed to pursue your interests and/or passion. You did not do what you have always wanted to do.

The opportunity cost of an unfulfilled passion is not only the missed passion, but also the passions that the missed passion was meant to sow and inspire.
sounds logical, but what if I never had any passion in life? or my passion in life is to work hard?
 

kaninabuchaojibye

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or maybe like @glockman whose passion is to smoke, bed women and squeeze nehnehs. still gotta to work to have money to smoke and chase skirts leh...

or maybe like @sweetiepie whose passion is punting 4d toto horse and football. still also got to work to have money to punt. Leh

so they sell their souls for these passions?

haaaa
 

kaninabuchaojibye

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after reading your thread, i think the proper approach should be to ask oneself what i want to own in life and be clear what you really want.

what u want to own is the answer to how u want to live your life.

if u want to own nothing, by all means be carefree.

If u want to own a nice home, a car and have good food, then u have to work for it and live that type of life.

If u want to be very very comfortable, u have to work for it. money doesn't drop from the sky...
 

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All financial planning and career paths should be undertaken with the aim of becoming financially independent by the age of 45.

This will allow ample time to pursue a life that you want rather than be stuck in one that you trapped in.
 

sweetiepie

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or maybe like @glockman whose passion is to smoke, bed women and squeeze nehnehs. still gotta to work to have money to smoke and chase skirts leh...

or maybe like @sweetiepie whose passion is punting 4d toto horse and football. still also got to work to have money to punt. Leh

so they sell their souls for these passions?

haaaa
KNN imuho working for someone mostly are selling soul but it leepend how the process was carried out KNN if you leeport to work without fearing anyone and contributing to the success of the business the process of selling soul will be greatly leeduced to using time without soul for your passion :sneaky: KNN
 

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The 7 Stages of Financial Independence: What Stage Are You In?

A high-income job doesn't always equate to financial independence or freedom from debt.

https://moneywise.com/a/the-7-stages-of-financial-independence

Dec. 18, 2019

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Do you work to live or live to work? If you work to live, then your job is central to your survival, regardless of whether or not you enjoy your work. In the live to work category you'll find overachievers who love their jobs or are desperate to make as much money as possible. Which is the better option? Or is there a better option entirely?

Experts concur that the goal of a career is not to let your life lose out to your work. Survival is important, but it's not living. Living can only happen when you really achieve freedom with financial independence.

Financial freedom means different things to different people, but a general consensus is that you've reached the most basic financial freedom when you have enough money coming in that you can do what you want in your spare time and enough tucked away that an emergency won't be devastating.

When talking about financial independence, people tend to think of it as a goal reached by working as hard as possible to retire as young as possible. This notion is partly right. But the truth behind financial independence is that it isn't really a goal, it's a process.

Smart Money Management and Financial Independence

Businesspeople, finance experts, and practically all wealthy individuals who have featured on the Forbes 500 list would say that there is no natural, overnight formula to becoming rich unless you win the lottery. And even with this, holding on to the lottery win and making sure that it doubles or triples over time requires some seriously hard work. In fact, financial independence is just one of the "pit stops” in the journey towards financial freedom. And the ultimate goal is actually financial abundance.

One redditor, jdroth, describes this idea of financial independence as existing on a continuum. It's not an all-or-nothing status but a series of gradual steps and advancements.

At the core of this process is smart money management. Smart money management is more than working hard enough to get a promotion or higher pay, seeking out multiple income streams, or going into business because it's more profitable than being a paid employee. It's also about your economic philosophy, financial goals, and spending and saving habits.

A high-income job can't get you financial independence or freedom from debt if you're living beyond your means. In the same way, an average income does not always mean a hand-to-mouth existence and the absence of a savings account. Many people successfully build substantial emergency funds on a regular office employee's salary.

Navigating the Stages of Financial Freedom



To figure out how to become financially free, check out our continuum of financial independence. Find out where you are and what your next move should be.

Stage 0: Dependence

The opposite of financial dependence, this stage suggests a complete dependence on others. At one point, even the most successful and the richest of millionaires were at this stage. With no means and no capacity to earn money, we all depend on our parents to provide for our needs when we're young.

You're also in this dependent stage if you're spending more than what you're earning. You'll know you're here if you've been forced to take out a payday loan, a loan from the bank, or borrow money from family and friends to get by. Either way, this suggests a dependency on something or someone to cover expenses you simply can't pay for.

Stage 1: Solvency

Profit or savings come in once you're able to keep your expenses down to less than what you're earning. Solvency is the first step in the surviving phase. In this stage, you're able to meet all of your financial commitments, pay all your bills, and you don't rely on someone or something to help you cover your expenses. You still have loans, but you're not adding anything new and more importantly, you can meet your payments every month.

If you're a student, your first step to solvency is to get a job that will allow you to earn enough so you wouldn't have to depend on your parents for your essentials. If you're already making some money, achieving solvency can entail getting a higher paying job, doubling your income stream, or cutting down on your expenses. If you've been stuck in Stage 0 because of debt, then one way to achieve solvency is to renegotiate with your creditors for friendlier payment terms or a get lower interest rate so you can still meet the required payment and still have enough money left to cover all your other bills.

Stage 2: Financial Stability

Once you're able to consistently meet your financial commitments, have paid off some debts, and you're able to keep your expenses down, then you can start saving. This extra money can be your rainy-day fund, a cash reserve that you can turn to when an unexpected expense crops up. Ordinarily, in stages 0 and 1, if you find yourself saddled with an emergency expense, the only choice is to borrow money, take out a loan, or fall behind on paying your bills because you have to cover the emergency instead. This wouldn't be the case if you had some savings tucked away.

At this stage, it's still perfectly acceptable and normal to have some significant debts. You might still be paying your student loan, or you might have a mortgage to settle every month, but you've paid off most of your consumer debt (i.e. credit card debt) and there's no need to get into more significant debt.

Stage 3: Debt Freedom

At this point, you've established enough stability in your expenses and managed to start setting aside money for an emergency fund. Since you've paid off most of your consumer debts, the next step is to start working through the high-interest major ones. Settling even one high-interest loan can mean one less item to worry about and added savings for you. This means working to pay off any debt on investment, a student loan, or the mortgage on your car or house.

In this stage, you have enough money and means not just to survive but also start thriving. You don't live a hand-to-mouth existence. You have cash reserves that can be a good fall back during an emergency, and you're almost debt-free. This is when the value of money is more than just a safety net and is now a tool to help you create a much better, more comfortable life. You can start to use your money for investing purposes.

Stage 4: Financial Security

This stage highlights the value of a good investment. If you've been saving money consistently somewhere between stages 2 and 4, then you've put some of your money into worthwhile investments that can deliver short, medium, and long-term returns. In this stage, you should be able to enjoy the benefits of those investments. If your investment income is adequate to cover your basic major living expenses, such as housing, food, utilities, and transportation, then you've reached the stage of financial security.

This doesn't necessarily mean that you can now quit your job. The basic idea is that, if for example you spend about $1,000 every month for these living expenses, then you have more than enough savings or income from your investments to cover this monthly $1,000 cost for the rest of your life. This doesn't cover expenses on the miscellaneous stuff, the small comforts you allow yourself, and that's why you still need the income from your job.

Stage 5: Financial Independence

Between stages 4 and 5, you continue earning money, and you're saving and investing more of it until, at some point, your investment earnings are enough (more than adequate) to cover your current lifestyle. This means your investment income is sufficient to pay for your necessary expenses AND the other miscellaneous ones, too, for the rest of your life. This is when you can now say it's okay to quit your job and go country hopping and not worry about your expenses both in the present and the future.

There is no set or a specific amount that lets you know you've achieved financial independence. Because lifestyles vary, a simple man can say that $20,000 is more than enough to cover everything he would need every year for the rest of his life, but another person may need $50,000 or $80,000 to cover their basic lifestyle needs and the occasional holiday abroad.

Stage 6: Financial Abundance

The last stage in the continuum is the point where you have enough for your lifestyle, both the basic and the comforts, and then still have some more that you can use on other things. You have enough surplus from your passive income that you can use it to invest in more business, buy more houses, donate to a charity, or even start one.

In this stage, we're not just talking about smart money management, but smart asset management. How do you control these passive assets? How do you allocate the income from these different investments? Who are the people who will benefit from these assets and investments at a later time? How will they be divided or distributed to your family and loved ones? These are all things you can consider if you've reached financial abundance.

A Proactive Take on Financial Independence

For most people, financial independence is seen as the end goal and they give little attention to the other stages before it. This view turns financial freedom into a mirage, an impossible dream, a "financial unicorn." Because it's seen as almost too good to be possible, a lot of people just end up somewhere around stages 2 and 3, or sometimes 4, and never try to move beyond these stages.

But by thinking of financial independence as part of a continuum, the goal becomes much more achievable and realistic. It also makes the journey less challenging and less frustrating. You don't have to get stuck, or worse, choose to be stuck in just stage 1. If you can manage to do away with your credit card debt, that's great. Then you can focus on saving 5% of your income this month, but later in the year, you can try to bump it up to 10%. By next year, you can start working to pay off your student loan. The point is that each and every action, no matter how small, becomes a crucial stepping point closer to the other end of the continuum.

These stages of financial independence also lead you down a path to a basic and essential part of smart money management: making investments. From stages 4 to 6, work and income from your job take a backseat. You are not relying on your paycheque to cover your basic expenses, and you've turned your attention to building and managing your investments.

Every penny saved and every debt or loan settled are steps that will take you closer to the goals near the freedom end of the continuum. For most people, there's no way to skip these steps, so what's the point in wishing for a lottery jackpot? Take heart in the fact that this is your journey and that your own choices and efforts can get you past financial bumps and into clear sailing. Gaining financial freedom is about building your skills, yourself, and your net worth.
 

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Have you truly lived a life pursuing your passion?

Those who switch to PMDs instead of being slave to their cars will reach financial independence far sooner than those that splurge on fancy automobiles.
 

eatshitndie

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there are so many stock option millionaires in sillycon valley that modern entrapment is like a passing fart. this fixer upper in palo alto was listed for sgd$6.9m in 2016.9 and is now valued at double that in the middle of a pandamic. when you have money and lots of it, financial "entrapment" is an alien concept.
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JustOneSingh

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Those who switch to PMDs instead of being slave to their cars will reach financial independence far sooner than those that splurge on fancy automobiles.

Bhai,

I use BMW i.e. Bus, Mrt, Walk. (No taxi, No Grab).
One month less than $30 compared to a

car's taxes, ERPs, parkings, servicing, maintenance, petrol, washing, etc, etc, etc,
 

zhihau

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Those who switch to PMDs instead of being slave to their cars will reach financial independence far sooner than those that splurge on fancy automobiles.

Those who have tantric sex often will understand the true meaning in life :biggrin::biggrin::biggrin:
 

Leongsam

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there are so many stock option millionaires in sillycon valley that modern entrapment is like a passing fart. this fixer upper in palo alto was listed for sgd$6.9m in 2016.9 and is now valued at double that in the middle of a pandamic. when you have money and lots of it, financial "entrapment" is an alien concept.
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Modern society does not entrap anyone it's idiots who entrap themselves by mismanaging their finances.
 

kaninabuchaojibye

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KNN imuho working for someone mostly are selling soul but it leepend how the process was carried out KNN if you leeport to work without fearing anyone and contributing to the success of the business the process of selling soul will be greatly leeduced to using time without soul for your passion :sneaky: KNN
i no think anyone can escape selling soul but like u say, can minimise. maybe ah heng realise that so he quit the pole position to be PM
haaaa
 

syed putra

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All financial planning and career paths should be undertaken with the aim of becoming financially independent by the age of 45.

This will allow ample time to pursue a life that you want rather than be stuck in one that you trapped in.
Of course if everything goes to plan. I am sure for many, plans goes awry.
 

rushifa666

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The main problem is retard asians never ever have money tk retire. So houses have gone up 20x in one generation, and you have to feed useless morons. Their debts have become yours. Buy a higher floor. Easier loater
 
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